Pre-owned, Yet Beyond Perfection - LOH #180

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I was probably 10 or 11 years old when I started saving my school feeding money to buy thrifts. No, my mom didn’t know and still doesn’t know about this. I had realized the importance of being financially independent as a girl. Now let me tell you my definition for financial independence at that age: Being able to afford cute tops, denims, cute boots, and cute outfits for parties.

Come on! Don’t laugh at me, what were you expecting? I was entering my teen phase.
My mom normally did all my wardrobe shopping at the time and bought everything that I needed as a teen but as a very popular and fashionable person in basic school, my friends were expecting more than just those average outfits my mom used to buy for me.

I had to take matters into my own hands but I didn’t have so much money to spare and that was when I got introduced to secondhand goods or thrifts, what we call “fose”, “buy it low and wear it high“ or “pre-loved” in Ghana.
It was truly a delight to know I could change my whole wardrobe with very less amount of money. Since then, thrifts and I became best of friends.

Fast forward, after the Covid 19 pandemic, I wanted to change my shoes collection because we hadn’t gone to church in about 2 years and of course, you know what happens to shoes when you don’t wear them for a long time. I needed new shoes and looking at my budget, I had no choice than to stick to “fose” shoes.

I decided to go thrift shopping one Saturday evening. Just when I entered the thrift session at the market, I saw a single stiletto pump. What? It was love at first sight. The speed at which I rushed to take that one so I could look for the other one was unmatched. After I found the other pair, my joy knew no bounds. It was too good to be true. No single scratch, no damage, no nothing. I was now thinking that the seller made a mistake and mixed a brand new shoe with thrifts but that wasn’t the case.

Oh and you know the price? 1.5hbd!!!
I was so shocked because the shoe was so fine. I bought it without even thinking twice and just left the market before the seller changes his mind about it. The first thing I did when I went home was to search for the prices of stiletto pumps and to my outmost shock they were 38hbd+. I wore it to my friend’s wedding ceremony the next day and I wish you all were there to hear the compliments I had that day.

Indeed I really “bought it low and wore it high”. I have so many pre-owned items but those stiletto pumps are my absolute perfect find and it’s been over 2 years now but they still look very brand new (I just wanted to give it a new look so I painted the soles black). The best friend relationship between thrifts and I is actually a forever deal.

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I think every girl should be financially independent. Your stiletto pumps are so beautiful. I love this and the colour I like most.

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Yeah, I think so too. Thank you

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Muy hermosa con estos detalles en el vestuario.
Very beautiful with these details in the wardrobe.

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You made me laugh 😂😂😂 you want to rock and you do get money😂
To me, thrift and I have been on a deal since university days and till now, we are still hooked together forever 👌
If you see the way I carry myself with a thrift cloth,na heavenly 😉
Thanks for sharing

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😂😂 not your regular popular teen cutie.

😂😂 buy it low and wear it high translation just doesn’t feel right when it’s not in twi.

You learned how to be independent since that age. No wonder you’re so rich sugar mommy 🤩

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Yeahhh I know rightt

Things get lost in translation

Which rich mummy😂😂😂

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😂 you're my rich sugar mummy oo. If you cough naa, I say bless you😂

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That's me too, I patronize thrift a lot. Most of my kids clothes are from bend down select session are they are good too

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You're Looking like a $million on the Cheap @abenad
I got a pair of used Micheal Kors black pumps super cheap as my formal go tos.
Well done girl!

!LADY

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You have good eyes🫱🏾‍🫲🏽. I should look for you to take me to the market when my coins come together

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Thanks for sharing your experience with us!
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Those are fabulous! Love my heels, too, they add pizazz to any outfit! 😊

!LADY
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Wow! Those stiletto's really looked good on you, it's like you were both meant to be. What a great find, I can imagine how you felt when you found the perfect one to your liking! The universe did really answer your heartfelt desire.... here's your stiletto girl!😍😍
I had fun reading your entry, best of luck on the challenge!

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Yes I know right
Almost as if we were meant for each other

Thank you

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The shoe looks beautiful, I have exactly the same but mine is combination of red and black

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Do you know the funny part of this fairly used stuffs? Most of them appear to be more quality than new ones. They aren't rampart and just unique with lesser money

You are looking so stunning with your dresses here..so take away! Sweet lady

😍🎉🥰👏

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Yeah I know right
Value for your money

Thank you☺️☺️

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You look pretty and your shoes make sense.

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I was waiting to hear the downside to it but glad there isn't. It just sounded too good to be true. You bought good then, they look gorgeous.🤩

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Who wouldn't fall in love with stilettos, hehehe. They're just my favorites. See how perfect it looks on you.

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