A big lesson for ladies from a toxic relationship

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Hello Friends, welcome back to my blog this beautiful day. This is a very good start for the first topic of week 61. This edition reminds me of some ugly events that took place in the past that I want to share with the house today.

Sometimes, I don't know wether to say that some people are blessed because of the kind of relationship that God have decided to bless them with. To some it seems that they are not lucky at all with relationship. They may try to give it their best, but at the end, the result is not what they expect. But you will see someone who you may think in yourself that he or she doesn't deserve a good relationship, they are the type of people who end up with good relationship. So, I am tempted to ask this question, do we need to do anything special to have the kind of relationship we see others enjoying? Or is it our fault entirely to have fallen into the wrong hands. I'm just thinking aloud.

When I was a little girl, still growing up and don't really know much about relationship, I happene to see one that was so bad that even as a small girl, I know that it was toxic.

My aunt had a friend who was in love with a guy who she never had any slightest idea that he never loved her, but just wanted to suck her dry. Because of the love she had for this guy, she practically does everything for him. She cooks for him, wash his clothes, takes proper care of his house. All of these things were done with her money not as I'd the guy will give her any money oh! That was when love was blind. Now, hahaha 😄. Love has suddenly began to see.

WHAT WAS HER THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING SHE DOES FOR HIM?

This guy will come back and start beaten her and claim that she doesn't know how to do anything properly. He will check his clothes and claim that she didn't Wash them very well. Even after taking his time to eat the food, he will still complain that she didn't add enough ingredients. This lady was just enduring everything thinking that he was going to change as time goes on.

HOW IT ALL ENDED

No one knows that all these his complain was to get something that will make him send her away because his parents had already made arrangements for him to get a wife from his village and he never told this lady the truth so that she can find her square root. The guy travelled home one time and stayed longer than expected. The girl became worried and started asking his friends why he has not returned. They all tried to cover everything from her so that she can hear the truth from the horses mouth. He had his traditional wedding and returned with his wife unannounced. After some days she started hearing rumors that her husband to be has married another woman from the village and has even returned with the wife. She didn't believe her ears. So, she decided to go and see things for herself. Reaching to his house, she discovered that it was true and fail down. She was rushed to the hospital. It took her time before she recovered from the shock.

This became a very big lesson for ladies in my area then never to over trust a man who may later dump you for another lady.

This post is made in response to the hive learners community contest for week 61 edition - Toxic relationship.

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