How I came out of boredom.

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This post is in response to the Weekly Featured Contents of hive learners community. I feel honored to participate with great joy. Thanks for being there for me.

We are deliberating on a very special topic that effect everyone in one way or the other. There must be that moment in once life that you will so feel bored that words can't explain exactly how you feel, and I believe for me it will be a good opportunity to share with this honourable house how I felt when I was bored. But first, we need to do justice to our topic by given it a definition to help us understand what we want to embark on.

Boredom this is derived from the word "bored" which means- mildly annoyed and restless through having nothing to do. This definition is given by oxford dictionary. Now this gives us an understanding of what we are going to discuss. Boredom simply means when one feels that he is doing nothing and is just lonely.

👉*We all have been bored at one time or the other, it is something we can't avoid. 👈

I want to discuss this based on personal experience. Yes, I have been bored not just once, but it happens to me at intervals. But I will love to be sharing this particular one that happened to me when I got married newly some years back.

👉Tell us about one time when your boredom case was so severe, and how did you get out of it? 👈

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Like I said,. We were just married for two months and my husband went for a business trip. Then we had no one living with us aside his younger brother who helps him to sell goods in the shop. As usual, the journey takes only one day and before you know it, he will be back. But for this particular journey he stayed more than the time I expected him to stay. I watched the time and he was not forth coming. By this time it was already midnight. After waiting for some time, I went to the main road by 1 am to check for him, after going round the whole place, I could not see him, I went back home. I went back again after one hour to search for him , but did not see him or even anyone to aske questions. By the time it was 2:30 am I still went again to check if there car have arrived. No one was there.

At this point, something began to speak to me inside that my husband has already died and that no one wants to tell me about it. I did not want to believe that fear that was beginning to come up from the inside of me. I tried to encourage myself, but I couldn't. I went and took cold water to see if I will get better, my BP was already going higher. I stayed awake till morning. By the time it was 6 am, there car arrived. I was just on my way to check again when we met on the way. Immediately I saw him, I became calm again.

Friends, that was when I knew that the night is very fearful and scary is you are afraid of something that might happen.

Why was I disturbed all through the night? It was just few months marriage and I was already becoming too use to him always staying with me. So, for me to stay alone all through the night was to lonely for me. But thank God that I came out of it the very moment I saw him.

Thanks for the opportunity to share my experience with the hive learners community.
I am still your friend @adaezeinchrist.

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