[ENG-ESP] Unconditional love | Amor incondicional

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Hola como estan, estoy en otro
" Modo aleh ", con experiencias y sobre temas relacionados con ideas o reflexiones de mi vida personal

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Amar incondicionalmente, es un privilegio que algunos hijos y padres pueden experimentar y disfrutar, yo en diferentes ocasiones lo he hecho post, para hablar un poco de mi relación con mi papá, es actualmente mi apoyo y aunque no todas las relaciones entre los padres son las mejores debo agradecer que esta y que estuvo siempre, desde el día #01 con dudas y miedo, siendo joven, no dudo en ser mi persona favorita en el mundo y que hoy en día muchas de las cosas nos han enseñado a tener una relación sana. Podemos ser duros y juzgar cada decisión que han tomado para nosotros, pero al crecer podremos entender quizas un poco quienes son individualmente, siendo hombres o mujeres, al final del día.

No siempre son papás, son hijos, hermanos y jefes, lo que sea, pero es lo que a veces no vemos. Y entiendo quienes no crecieron con esa persona que los tomará de la mano o los llevara al colegio de camino al trabajo, esta bien es sano reconocer que no siempre hace falta o que si dejo un vacío que no se puede remediar. Pero el bienestar es muy personal, si seremos esos padres sin quemar esas etapas o seremos flexibles en temas que jamás hemos podido hablar ni de hijos. Todas estas interrogantes te van llegando al ir creciendo, volviendo a revivir en fechas como esta, que estamos entendiendo esos demonios del pasado. A veces cuando nos have falta esa persona (Papá) hay conductas que no sabemos que se presentan sino cuando estamos nosotros siendo los padres y siempre he dicho que si no cerramos los miedos, las inseguridades no podremos ser esos que siempre lucharon con la niñez que no quieren repetir y que a veces se puede volver tóxica.

Muchas veces he tenido esas conversaciones con mi papá, sobre ser yo madre algun día y siento que esa parte aun sigue inmadura, y jamás estamos listos, pero si sientes cuando hay cosas de ti que están en paz y aun el miedo jamás se irá por empezar cosas nuevas, ser responsables de vidas y que estas se formen por parte de tus enseñanzas y ejemplos es importante y deja huellas. Por eso entiendo que cada proceso y cada familia es diferente, pero debemos poder perdonar, cambiar un poco esos resentimientos y disfrutar la vida que corta es y que nos deja solo aprendizaje corto, amor incondicionalmente, es un privilegio y siento que he sido afortunada, en diferentes momentos y en esta vida, pedir más seria abusar de la suerte.

Por eso ama como puedas y siéntete en paz por intentarlo, di lo que te perturba y se feliz, siempre que puedas, es lo mas importante.

Feliz día del padre.

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Hello how are you, I am in another
"aleh mode", with experiences and on topics related to ideas or reflections of my personal life.

To love unconditionally, is a privilege that some children and parents can experience and enjoy, I have on different occasions done so post, to talk a little about my relationship with my dad, he is currently my support and although not all relationships between parents are the best I must be thankful that this and that he was always, from day #01 with doubts and fear, being young, I do not hesitate to be my favourite person in the world and that today many of the things have taught us to have a healthy relationship. We can be harsh and judge every decision they have made for us, but as we grow up we can understand maybe a little bit of who they are individually, being men or women, at the end of the day.

It's not always dads, it's sons, brothers, bosses, whatever, but that's what we sometimes don't see. And I understand those who didn't grow up with that person who will hold their hand or take them to school on the way to work, it's healthy to recognise that it's not always necessary or that it does leave a void that can't be filled. But wellbeing is very personal, whether we will be those parents without burning those stages or we will be flexible on issues that we have never been able to talk about, not even about our children. All these questions come to you as you grow up, reliving them at times like this, when we understand the demons of the past. Sometimes when we are missing that person (Dad) there are behaviours that we don't even know are happening but when we are the parents and I have always said that if we don't close our fears and insecurities we can't be those who have always struggled with the childhood that they don't want to repeat and that sometimes can become toxic.

Many times I have had those conversations with my dad, about being a mother someday and I feel that part of me is still immature, and we are never ready, but if you feel when there are things in you that are at peace and even the fear will never go away to start new things, being responsible for lives and that these are formed by your teachings and examples is important and leaves footprints. That is why I understand that every process and every family is different, but we must be able to forgive, change those resentments a little and enjoy the short life that leaves us only short learning, love unconditionally, it is a privilege and I feel that I have been lucky, at different times and in this life, to ask for more would be to abuse luck.

So love as you can and feel at peace for trying, say what troubles you and be happy, whenever you can, that's the most important thing.

Happy Father's Day.

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