FOR YOU HATERS

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Hi everyone, my account lacks the energy to reply to people who have supported and commented on my content, but I would like to thank you for your response and support. Now, I want to go back to writing something that I hope becomes a small note for myself personally and also for those who read this content.

I am 100% sure that in this life that we go through there must be people who like and dislike us, regardless of what we do. Some of them will think and think we are good and loved, but others will think and think we are bad and hated.

The question,

• Have I and all of us ever been hated?
• How do you deal with that?
• Is there any benefit from their hatred of you?

These three questions suddenly occurred to me, and I tried to find the answers myself so that I could share them with you all. Hopefully, it can be an input and also a way for me to exchange ideas with you all about this, because sometimes your haters will make you stop and retreat from something you are fighting for.

Have I and all of us ever been hated.
Living as a social being with various communities, statuses, races, tribes to ethnicities, makes humans stuck with these things. Coupled with the uniqueness of each individual who has a mindset, desires, thoughts, and also the personality of each, So that some people don't like you or hate you.

If we can take the positive out of life, people who hate are something normal. Due to the uniqueness of each individual I mentioned earlier, we cannot control each person as we expect. There are always differences in things, likes, hobbies, personalities, perceptions, imaginations, expectations, and There are people out there who don't like you or hate you.

How do you deal with that?
You need to know I think the hatred of a person can arise from a variety of reasons, all derived from the opposite of who hates us. Someone can hate us for no reason, someone can also hate us because of someone else's provocation. Another reason comes from what we do, for example when we have hurt someone so that it leaves a scratch in his heart. Last caused by promises that are not in accordance with the expectations they want.

For me at the moment two powerful ways to forget someone's hatred for me, the first thing is self-introspection. This means that I have to work on myself to stay calm and correct any mistakes that I may have made so that it becomes the cause of them hating me. Second, by ignoring the hate, sometimes the hate does come from them. I don't need to stop if I don't make mistakes, my life is free while still obeying all the norms and ethics of life.

Is there any benefit from their hatred of you?
There is always wisdom and benefit in getting from something bad, all there are lessons to be learned if we want to learn from it. Haters are people who sometimes tell the truth about the shortcomings and ugliness that we have, making it a mirror of honesty in changing all the bad things contained in the us.

Life today should be better than yesterday, then you can make haters the motivation to get up and keep running to be a human beings who can learn from mistakes and go further. Make your haters into people who like you, because they don't know you well enough.

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This is the fruit of what I pondered in a place, the afternoon sun with a breeze by the sea made me find the answer, who it is, and how I address The Haters.

It's great if you can share your story as well as Share suggestions in the comments, I appreciate it.