Reciprocity... help those who help you!
Below is written in Portuguese! ✍
Sometimes in life we carry the burden alone... we do too much and in the end we are not reciprocated as we think we should be.
Together we are stronger !
Being reciprocated is something we all strive to be, sometimes we try too hard to do something, and when it comes to the person to do it for you, they make excuses or want to teach you a moral lesson.
Maybe you have a common interest in helping someone, but that other person doesn't have the same interest as you, so you don't get frustrated better if you learn to expect less from the other, just do your part, or simply practice letting go... it's you who decides.
Waiting too long for the other generates frustration, so it is necessary to remember that life is a constant reciprocity, as you make your choices, they begin to make it for you.
We each have strengths and weaknesses, so it is important, and it is also necessary to work together as a team so that together we can achieve happiness and well-being. It is exactly the reciprocity and cooperation that are valuable for our life and for the which we must always remember.
Each one of us has to be able to give back to other people what they do for us, it's not just a matter of demonstrating in words but in deeds.
If someone happens to have a positive attitude towards you, try to return this act with the same intensity, this will create a bond between them, thus a new relationship will emerge between them and through the principle of an exchange... not that this is also true absolute, each one decides what is best for himself.
The first to develop reciprocity is to create empathy for the other, put yourself in the other's shoes too, it's the least we should do while we're fighting here on earth.
- Always be grateful to those who helped you or who still help you;
- Know how to listen to your neighbor with love;
- Let go of all the anger, resentment, bad feelings you have or had for someone... life is here and now"
- Nothing better than keeping an open dialogue, with a lot of respect;
And after all... If possible, start practicing reciprocity today!
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While there is time, always do the good "
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Below is written in Portuguese! ✍ 👇
Reciprocidade... ajude quem te ajuda !
Ás vezes na vida carregamos o fardo sozinhos... fazemos muito e no final não somos correspondido como achamos que deveria ser.
Juntos somos mais fortes !
Ser correspondido é algo que todos nós buscamos ser, ás vezes nos esforçamos demais para fazer alguma coisa, e quando chega a vez da pessoa fazer por você, ela dá desculpas ou fica querendo dar uma lição de moral.
Talvez você tem um interesse comum em ajudar alguém, porém essa outra pessoa não tem o mesmo interesse que você, para não se frustrar melhor você aprender a esperar menos do outro, apenas faça sua parte, ou simplesmente pratique o desapego... é você quem decide.
Esperar demais pelo outro gera frustração, portanto é preciso lembrar que a vida é uma constante reciprocidade, á medida que você faz suas escolhas, elas começam a fazer por você mesmo.
Cada um de nós temos pontos fortes e pontos fracos, por isso é importante, e também se faz necessário trabalhar juntos em equipe para juntos atingirmos assim a felicidade e bem estar, é exatamente a reciprocidade e a cooperação que são valiosas para nossa vida e ao qual devemos sempre nos lembrar.
Cada um de nós temos que ser capaz de retribuir a outras pessoas o que elas fazem por nós, não vale apenas demonstrar apenas em forma de palavras e sim de ações.
Se alguém porventura tiver uma atitude positiva por você, tente voltar esse ato com a mesma intensidade, isso criará uma ligação entre ambos, assim surgirá um novo relacionamento entre ambas e através do princípio de uma troca... não que isso também seja uma verdade absoluta, cada um decide o que é melhor para si mesmo.
O primeiro para desenvolver a reciprocidade é criar empatia pelo outro, se coloque no lugar do outro também, é o minímo que devemos fazer enquanto estamos pelejando aqui na terra.
- Seja sempre grato á quem te ajudou ou ainda te ajuda;
- Saiba ouvir o seu próximo com amor;
- Deixe de lado toda raiva, rancor, sentimentos ruins que você tem ou teve por alguém... a vida é aqui e o agora "
- Nada melhor do que manter um diálogo aberto, com muito respeito;
e afinal... Comece se possível a praticar a reciprocidade ainda hoje !
Enquanto há tempo exerça sempre o bem "
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What a lovely post dear. No man is a island itself, we all depend on someone and its good to have support and togetherness. That what family, community and friendship all about. But we must show our gratitude and reciprocate our help. It's a good habit to be feeling grateful to others and reciprocating. Even though we should always try to do good for others 😊🙏
Gratitude is everything, it is the basis of all feelings... Together we are stronger...
A very good one from you and I must say this is a very vital one in which we all need to check and work on.
The main reason why so many people re getting it right now or thing going their way is because of how helpful they have been to some set of people in the past, although at times it doesn't work this way too, cause some don't understand the importance of been helpful.
This your article as really tells that coming together as one too or joining hands together is key to good life.
But of all we should learn how to be grateful for whatever we received and at any point we have the chance to help a life let we should do without hoping to get anything in return
Gratitude should be the basis of our daily life, we can't achieve anything by ourselves. Thanks !
It can be quite frustrating doing something for someone and not getting the necessary feedback. I have come to learn that in order not to feel hurt about this, we are to perform the act of giving or help with no intention to receive, this way we don't feel when what we do isn't acknowledged.
On our part when we receive act of kindness from someone, we are to show the attitude of gratitude as it shows our appreciation and could be a magnet of blessings.
All in all, we are to learn the way love everything we do. Resentment , anger and I'll feeling shouldn't find a place in us. Thanks a lot for this post, it's a great reminder of how we ought to take and live life
It is better to help without waiting in return is the best remedy against disappointment.
Yeah, exactly. We only get disappointed when we have a hidden motive or expectation in our act of giving
This is one of the mistake we humans do in life, we end up biting the finger that feed us when we had nothing to show in this life.
Life is all about supporting each other in every circumstances, we give help to others and we also try to help others so that you will be able to receive help from them tomorrow.
Together we grow to a certain level in this life, we can't climb a ladder and kick it down so others will not come up but we also give support to bring people up in life.
If people can change and help others or even start with helping their friends and family members I'm sure the world would have been a better place.
Portuguese;
Esse é um dos erros que nós humanos cometemos na vida, acabamos mordendo o dedo que nos alimenta quando não tínhamos nada para mostrar nesta vida.
A vida consiste em apoiar uns aos outros em todas as circunstâncias, ajudamos os outros e também tentamos ajudar os outros para que amanhã possam receber ajuda deles.
Juntos, nós crescemos até um certo nível nesta vida, não podemos subir uma escada e chutá-la para baixo para que outros não subam, mas também damos suporte para criar pessoas na vida.
Se as pessoas pudessem mudar e ajudar outras, ou mesmo começar ajudando seus amigos e familiares, tenho certeza de que o mundo teria sido um lugar melhor.