In The Process Of Letting Go...

Starting a new thing by having to leave the old thing is the hardest thing in life. We are often worried by the fear of failing to get the same comfort as in the past. We fear that there will be no more people supporting us in the new age.

But what we have to focus on is letting go, leaving things that are no longer good for us, no longer appropriate for us to go into things that are truly new.

We know it will be very difficult because we have invested a lot of time in building future plans, for example planning a life with a partner. But then we break up / divorce / fail to get married, all plans fall apart, our hearts are broken, dying, it's hard to see tomorrow.

Remember to forgive yourself, forgive the situation. Sometimes everything that happens is not entirely our fault, but that is what must happen. That's the best universal provision you have to accept, live it, then move forward.

In the process of forgetting, we will lose many things. But surely we will increasingly find ourselves, we will realize that we deserve to feel happiness.

Celebrate the loss, by stepping forward apologetically. Stop holding grudges for anyone. Because this is how life is. Change always requires us to accept reality and let go of things that are no longer appropriate for our lives. Because in the end, if we continue to force under the same conditions, it is the worst way to live life.

“In the process of letting go you will lose many things from the past, but you will find yourself.” – Deepak Chopra