Have you experienced the fear of being a mother?

When I was very young I believed many things about babies, but less, that we were several months inside our mothers, as I grew up and became more aware until I realized the reality of being a mother, that scared me a little, I tell you that it is a strange feeling, between fear and joy for wanting to have and bring a living being to this world, and which will carry our blood.

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I imagine that no woman prepares herself psychologically to be a mother, and go through the whole process of pregnancy, they are unique moments that we women live and feel, I am convinced that going through this makes us become attached to our sons and daughters much more than parents, our connection with them is extremely close, their care depends largely on us.

It is a huge responsibility when we get pregnant, it is not only the fact of bringing them into the world, but to give them the best possible welfare, many times when thinking about all this responsibility, makes us feel fear, and much more when the pregnancy is not planned, or we are alone without the help of the father, as a woman sooner or later we have to live this beautiful stage, under the circumstances that we have.

Surely all of you who are already mothers and those who are not yet mothers, have experienced the fear of being mothers, there may be many reasons that make us feel this way, I can share some of them, according to my own experience, one of my fears was the possible medical complications at the time of bringing my baby into the world, I did not feel prepared, and I saw how the days, weeks and months were passing.

The fact that I was very young when I brought my daughter into the world, I had on my shoulders the responsibility of growing a life inside my body, and the care that this deserved, and I also knew that it was only a short stage because the real challenge would come when my baby was born, all this makes us think a lot, and fill our minds with worries, I constantly talked to my mom, she helped me a lot to get out of my fears.

We are three siblings, two women and a man, and my mother emphasized this to me, this is one of the many stages that you have to live through to be a woman, sons and daughters are the greatest blessing that life gives us, and I have proven it with the arrival of my daughter, and it has been a little more than 10 years, watching her grow and helping her to understand life.

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As a girl and future mother I know that I will have to guide her and help her to overcome any fears she may have when she decides to become a mother, it is the natural way to reproduce and continue as a human species, what I always try to make her understand, that her biggest challenge should be to provide all the love possible, and the rest is based on that love, love for our children and daughter transforms us and makes us feel like a mother of all children in the world.