Don't get lost while trying to prove them wrong
I know there are some people around you who feel you cannot achieve some certain things in life and you really want to prove them wrong, well yeah it is not a bad idea if you want to prove them wrong but also remember that you need to ensure that you do not get lost because you are trying to prove a point..
You need to always know that it is your life , your rules..You should be able to dance to the rhythm of your song in your own way , you do not need to do it only because you want to impress others , learn to do it for yourself , for the sake of your happiness and self-love..
Push your limits because you want to really know your strengths and not because you want to impress others..
You should build your inner strength and be determined to always come out successful during the battle with whatever challenges you are facing in life..
Do not look at their words before you make certain decisions , run your own race in the best way you can , do not allow them to be the one to judge your race for you..
Do not waste your life trying to convince others , why not just simply spend more time working on how you will be a better person in life instead of wasting the time of your life trying to impress others or trying to seek validation from others..
It's okay if anyone doubts you , as long as you do not doubt yourself , then you are good to go..
You should be your own source of strength to be able to face your life battles , you have all it takes to excel..
Do not get lost while trying to make people get impressed by your actions or decisions , if you allow others to determine your happiness , then it will be your own weak point because those people will take advantage of it and start treating you in a way that shows that you cannot or should not be happy without them...
You should determine your own happiness , do not let others determine your sadness or happiness for you.. The power to your glory and happiness should belong to you , you and you...
Cheers.
Truly, there are many people around us who consider themselves very weak person. They think that, their life may be full of failures. But what is really so!
I never think so. It's only through effort that the impossible can be conquered. Humans have conquered the highest mountain peaks in the world? 200 years ago did anyone think it would be possible! But this is the reality today. Human-made computers are capable of working faster and more accurately than humans today.
So to overcome failure, all you need is determination. If you fail once, you have to try again and again. As a child we heard a story about a spider. That little spider didn't give up even after 11 failures. Reached the victory at 12th attempted.
Very true..
I agree with you. We shouldn't spend our lives pleasing others. Because in the end the life is ours. The gazillion people we try to impress won't pay our bills.
In today's world there is a term called people pleaser. these people just accept the fact that they are undervalued and yet they continue to value people. This culture should be discontinued. as it will only weigh you down.
We should learn skills according to the things we like and know we can do good with. and not based on preferences from other people. stepping out of someone's shadow is hard enough. but that is a price we have to pay in order to succeed. because in the end, nobody will carry another man's bucket.