The defeat - 2 place in guild brawl. What it really mean for me - GAME OVER?!

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This was one of the most difficult brawl for our guild Summoner's Tribe from the start. When I was ready to send my battles for silver fray I saw, that one of my teammate have already 5 loses ;( it didn't happens many times that someone of us perform under 50% win ratio, but it's motivates me to prove my worth in this brawl, because the best thing what I can do it growth in stressful situations like this. Is not the same feeling, when you send your brawl and you already winning, it's different one. So fighting with emotions was a key part of my performance during this day.

We finished competition at second place without trophy for a win with much less crowns for second place. So many times we had problems to defeat The guild of Neoxian, but this time Immortal Gods was a way better and even with many players good performance it was not ending at the first place. Personally I didn't expected that good performance of IG in this brawl. I was little confused, when I saw how good they were. Main problem there was not only bad performance of few our teammates, but another problem with possibly draw. We as a guild are far away in ladderboard, so any draw will end with victory of Immortal Gods. I know what I am writing now, because in the past there was a situation, where we lost couple of brawls cuz of draw versus guild with overall better elo rating note of all her members.

What it really mean? You lost and there should be text "GAME OVER" like in many games? Definitely not! This is kind of experience, which you get. It is something, which define your current moment, situation in which you are now, but you should never give up after seeing this.
Only weak people accept that fact and do nothing with it. People like me draw wisdom from every defeat. Sometimes you think you are not good enough or you think you can't beat someone, because of something, but it doesn't matter at all in the future. Masters are eternals students, they can adaptate for every situation. They know they are not the best, because there can be a moment, when someone will took their place. If you stop making things, which require set of skill, then you basically just think you are the best, but you are not, trust me. In time, when you celebrate many times the victories someone from the other side learn from defeat. Someone truly want to win to defeat you and take your place. That's happens in this brawl. We were not patient at all. We made too many mistakes or just game rng in diffrent way, than you think before it starts, but c'mon it can always happen and we need to be ready for that. For that margin of error, because we can't just draw as a lower elo rating guild.

If you already learn from defeat, then you should start think positive. Never let fear of failure control you. It only leads to a spiral of more failures. You will made more mistakes, you will think only about more loses unless you win at least once, but it can never happen in near future. Foremost clear your mind. Don't think about things, which drain your life energy. Take a rest. Think about something else. Good that brawls are in cycles every 5 days. 5 days is enough time for overthinking, mental recovery and enough time to build positive thinking and strong ego. Players, who think they are losing or they are winning usually both are right. If you think about failure, before game start, then probably you will lose. If you build positive thinking with calm, then you have bigger chance for a win, because someone from the other side can be truly tilted or are already in lose streak. Trust me, when you have rage of rng or something for what you have no impact you calculate situation bad in next games. You are blind for success, you think in bad way. If you want back to the top you need to recovery your mental first and prepare your mind for be big in stressful moments, then all goes easier and more steady.

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