Liberty

When I discovered I was pregnant few months after my wedding ceremony, I had mixed feeling because I and husband man agreed not to have kids yet until at least after two years.

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I was a little surprised because I was on the prevention pill, I was also a bit happy and curious to know what it feels like to have a baby growing inside of me. I was also scared of what my husband will say about it based on our agreement.

I couldn't wait for him to get back before telling him. I sent him a message on WhatsApp and the only question he asked me was; 'are you sure?' When he got back we discussed it and I noticed he was not angry as expected and I didn't bother to ask him. I was happy but I was worried at the same time about my health. So, I started reading and asking all the questions I needed to ask.

I checked my stomach in the mirror every morning and every time I look at the mirror. I would raise my top, trying to see if there was a difference in my stomach. But there was none.
I was on a daily medication based on my health challenge before I got pregnant but during this period, I stopped talking all drugs and I was fine. I never missed any prenatal appointments.

I downloaded the baby center app to track my babies growth and development I eat everything considered healthy for a pregnant woman. I googled every changes I experience.. I wished I could have symptoms like other pregnant women I know but mine was different. I was stronger than ever. I didn't have a common fever during pregnancy.
The pregnancy seemed like the best thing that happened to us. My husband got a better job and baby was doing great, very active in a normal position.
The day I gave birth to my baby boy, I didn't believe it. I couldn't believe such beautiful came out from me. He was so adorable. I was literally shaking when I held him. We named him 'Liberty' because he brought us liberty He was indeed a blessing and everything he did growing up was so lovely and funny.

My big boy didn't walk until during his first birthday party. I have seen children start walking as early as eight months, including my neighbors daughter so I expected him to walk early. I was already getting worried but I was assured that he was fine and will walk at his own time. He was healthy and strong but not just ready for the walk yet.

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We had a party in our compound to celebrate his birthday, with only close friends and family members. He was busy having fun and taking pictures when he took those steps. My mouth was wide open as I watched him filled with joy. The children started clapping and Immediately he fell. I grabbed him and hugged him tightly as if my life depended on it. I was so happy.
I held him so tight and was so emotional. It was a really emotional moment for us that day. He didn't stop walking after that, he kept waking until he started running around.

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Your baby boy was indeed a blessing because when he was born, things became better in your family. All those feelings that you have felt when you find out that your pregnant is common to every first time mommies, I too had all those worries but when I gave birth, all of it was wiped away.

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Really...
It is indeed a miracle. All the worries disappeared.

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