El gozo de Ser Resolutiva (ES-EN)

Greetings, my dear friends from @holos-lotus. I hope you are doing very well, enjoying health and well-being.

Checking the community, I came across the inspiring initiative of @damarisvibra, who constantly invites us to reflect on our essence and our nature as human beings. So, on this occasion, I join, with much enthusiasm to the initiative Ser resolutivo to make the reflexion on whether we are resolute beings or not.

This is an interesting topic because it allows us to analyze our abilities to successfully overcome problems or difficulties.

I connect deeply with this topic, as I reflect on the evolution of my being over time, I feel that I acquired the ability to be decisive from an early age, even when I was still a child. For, as the oldest sister, I assumed the responsibility of taking care of my four siblings, and on numerous occasions I found myself directing the resolution of various situations.

I believe that since then, I have developed the ability to be continually prepared to seek solutions to problems or challenges in all areas of my life, especially in the family environment.

Inside me, there is an inner strength, it is like an energy that drives me to want to solve any circumstance. My instinct is to always look for solutions, first using the resources I have at hand or with what is within my reach, and if these are not enough, then I dedicate myself to learn whatever is necessary to find the solution to the problem.

For a long time, in my family, I have been seen as the person capable of finding solutions to any kind of dilemma or issues of different nature. And not in vain, as I personally have assumed this as an innate need.

"Auro, solve" was the phrase that always sealed the responsibility of the problem in my hands, no matter what it was. Even today, after I emigrated, my family still calls me to ask me about any situation or problem with the desire that I can give them possible solutions; but the distance, now, does not allow me to be more attuned to these situations and I have had to make me understand that, from here, I can no longer solve the setbacks or inconveniences as before. However, I do not cease to support, making them see the way by which they can find the light and the most feasible solutions.

I consider that I have a great capacity for resolution. I have rarely been paralyzed in the face of a problem or difficulty. I exhaust all possibilities until I find a solution. If the problems that arise are of an economic nature, for example, then I look for ways to increase my income, in order to sustain the budget.

In some circumstances in which I have felt that my problems have overwhelmed me and I myself do not see solutions, then I assume that I cannot and I look for the appropriate help to solve them.

In conclusion, I confess that the ability to be a problem solver, rooted deep within me, brings me genuine satisfaction. I enjoy the opportunity to offer help, to find solutions and to facilitate outlets for others to solve their problems.

I thank my dear @damarisvibra for this new opportunity for reflexion.