Poisoned heart
Among the wars of nuclear weapons I consider the war of tongue as the most lethal one because it doesn't heal even after death. My mother used to tell me a story in childhood. A lion proves this statement as righteous by getting hurt physically in response to a verbal attack by his human friend's wife. The appeared body wounds may heal by once abused verbally it takes a whole life to relieve. And multiple times this doesn't happen. A man dies with grudges in heart. The goodness is wasted in seconds.
I consider the most infectious disease of keeping aversion in heart,
nothing kills or breaks you except the hate you keep flourishing. One day it becomes magma which emerges through your mouth and destroys everyone. No matter if they are relations or anything. It decomposes you when you hide and nourish it but kills your relations in seconds with the first shot.
People do get hurt when others become judgemental about them, comments on social media injures people's psyche internally. Fun activities cause headaches when they are taken quietly. They digest the soul of a person who is being targeted for nothing. Phones and social media decides about us these ages so these factors are also responsible for the vitality or suicide of someone.
You don't earn respect or goodness each time you do virtues. Sometimes these are written for you in the long run, you are not blessed for everything at the same time. So when you ask for those favors you waste them.
Do everything for the Lord not for the people, less expectation, a happy life.
When you know your rage is not long lasting then instead of making it cause of disaster ,try to dispose of it secretly. Don't give others the chance to ruin the real good image of you because it's you who have covered a milestone to earn and establish it. No one wastes your good deeds except you who make a wrong turn because of emotional stress. Sometimes it's an unfavorable time or person who ignites you and burns all your goodness in seconds. You earn nothing except a heap of ashes . Guilty will be in your empty pocket to make you realize that your temporary outrage made you beggar of happiness and love .
If you have a whole storage of hate in your heart, go in front of the mirror and dispose of it. Share it with someone who you consider wise to handle your mental health but never ever make more space for to make it dominant over your mind and heart.
Once the statements you passed wouldn't be forgiven with 5 words sorry. If you are apologetic, implement this in your attitude too, make an aim not to repeat the same stuff again.
People don't care about when you have taken off all the clothes of respect, and love.
You can't move on from all your words. Some phrases are written on metal which are only reshaped or melted when transforming yourself into a new version.
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"Do everything for the Lord not for the people, less expectation, a happy life." Hi Sis @ayesha-malik I love this lines of words.. after everything that happened to me, I am living my life by glorifying the Lord, everything I do I am offering to him, because with the lord, life is at peace.
And it's best to live our life without grudges and hatred. But it doesn't mean we will let anybody push us down and abused us and let it affects us. People sometimes forgetting to respect others but without it life is worthless. To live with love, respect, kindness and good virtues is always the best, no matter how hard the life we are facing, or be surrounded with evil minded people. And most of all let Lord God be in the center of our life and be a God fearing one too. Have a blessed evening! Salamat!😇❤️-
Good to see you Sis. 💕 I quoted your example twice in front of friends gathering as you are the lady who remained positive through think and thin. You haven't left the way where Lord decides the destiny. Situation tested you but still you pushed them back with courage and love Sis LUV
The original life is not about compromising your goodness. Even if you leave everything to Lord still you must attain some portion of your love in return. So glad to see your presence 🤍 hugs 🤗 ❤️
-Sis many times I wanted to give up my life in real and online and everything, I left the blogging world for over a year, deactivated my social medias, I only created FB for my sons studies during lockdown, I felt so betrayed. Didn't know whom to trust even myself, I was also recovering from health problems. But during those times I learned a lot!. Learned who stayed and true. Few friends, some family members. and as I returned back online, created new social media, then I learned some virtual friends looking for me, they are special to me. And I will always treat them that way. Big love and respect to them and to help if I can. And most of all they are always in my prayers, you are also good to me. Thank you!. 😘
I always offer everything to the lord, and I will never change. Thanks a lot Sis ha?😇❤️.. Please take care always. Have a blessed evening!🙏
I love that part where you says we should do everything for the Lord and not for the people, less expectations, happy life... That is the truth.
Expecting people to do for you because you did for them will only bring hatred to you which in the end, could stir up a bad and poisoned heart towards another person.
Why should we hold grudges and hate when we can just let go, love and forgive quickly? There will be peace of mind too.
This not only affects the other person but infects our soul too. We can't survive in a such poisonous environment.
Inner peace can be fetched if one implements these golden rules of endless love, and limitless forgiveness. A healthy mind and peaceful soul. 💕 Thanks for showing such engagement Princess 🌺 !LUV
Exactly 👍 we should show love and forgive quickly instead of letting it sit for long in our heart.
It's my pleasure reading your post too.
It's not true for me because in my case I am the only one who decides about me and I don't use my mobile for a long time.
And we shouldn't think too much about others because most of them just wait to find a mistake of us to blame. In that case, I have no emotion and I avoid such kinds of people.
At last, I also think that keeping low expectations is a good thing for all of us.
Most of the time the people who we met online or through our content choices, our thematic personality is decided so we are different as being on social media and in real life. If I refer myself, I am more extrovert in real but when it's about chats I remain quite person .
The best solution you adopt in this case !LUV. Perhaps we all keep avoiding others mistakes and flaws to grow a healthy community .
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That's a great advice. Holding onto hate and negative emotions can take a toll on one's mental and emotional health. It's important to address and process these feelings in a healthy way, whether that be through self-reflection, talking to a trusted friend or therapist, or practicing self-care. By letting go of hate and negativity, we can make space for positive emotions and a healthier mindset.
You have nourished my thoughts by sprinkling your words of wisdom. Keeping grudges, guilts and hate burns us spiritually. There are people around us who can digest each flaws of us( so do we can become the same person). Having a strong and good mental health is a blessing dude. Thanks for showing up. !LUV
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