Psychological pressure and it's aspects

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Pressure, have you conceded how we devoured all of our life in the shell of pressure. We all are like oysters who endure all their life to pay dividends. It must be white in order to gratify the anticipation. Whenever an individual attempts to evacuate us from this our own adductor muscle prohibits change. But have you realized what comes about at the end?

This pressure annihilates us and the world finds a lifeless worm along with pearls.

So why and how we are kept in this pressure.

  • The pressure of grades ;

From childhood till death we run before grades and you know who runs before us…. Sarcastically apprehension. You don't have to study for better learning, what you ought to do is to collect the stack of medals.

  • The pressure of background;

If you belong to a wealthy family you must have to demonstrate yourself. If not then you can't claim to be their part. Even they will demoralize your DNA too. But if your family remained unprivileged you must have to repudiate them by showcasing your talent ( I am saying this phrase in unfavorable manner as many strugglers fail to fetch success if they preserve that background with themselves)

  • The pressure of earnings ;

Comparison and competition almost grabs your goodness and hard work away. You encounter this when you are portrayed in relation to others earnings, privileges and luxurious. Pressure gives you suffocation no matter how many aspects you are superior to others.

  • Pressure of happiness;

I may look odd while saying this but I have witnessed the people who pretend to be happy. And they are forced to accomplish so. Would you agree with me on this?? We live in society ( I know you will say Ayesha always criticizes society, even though she is also a portion of this I admit it's true but yet accept this fact). Where we are judged for everything. People would even criticize your suffering too because for them it's the outcome of your false deed. So to jealous them or to come on their level we all pretend happiness.

  • Outcomes ;

I heard fewer people have admitted that they have risen from pressure ( backbenchers please remain quiet. I know you have passed the exams by taking the last night pressure of exams). Multiple times pressure becomes an explanation of all things. Pressure of grades takes your mastery from you ( suicidal cases by students are evident of this), pressure of background fills hate of your family in your heart. Pressure of earnings takes your hard work away from you. Each pressure takes you to an adverse direction where you might become disastrous.

So this is all from side , share your story with me.

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you know who runs before us

Good Marks - right?

Everywhere i Go, I see

Happy Sunday GIF by Maria Johnsen

Well, life Goes on.... Backbenchers pain is real. It ain't easy to cover whole course in one day before exam.

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Haha do they run before us, I guess the time (invested in parties, fun, friends) ^wasted^☠️😃✌️ comes before us. Hmmm seems like someone is an expert in cramming the headings last night !LOL

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Hi @ayesha-malik . Well explained , It's true that society often creates unrealistic expectations and pressures, and it's important to recognize when we're feeling overwhelmed.

I agree with your call to share our stories and experiences with each other, as it can help us to feel less alone and more understood in our struggles.

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I am glad to see your feedback, surprisingly many of us remain busy to lessen this pressure but once and at all we can't do this. Do you have any story, related to this??? I would love to listen as I have faced the background pressure ( where I have to remain brilliant and perfect like my family.... Sigh a shooting star)

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I understand the pressure you're feeling to meet the expectations set by your family. It's not uncommon for people to feel this way, especially in today's society where there's often a lot of emphasis placed on success and perfection.

I have faced earning pressure, even my ideas were good but because of few reasons (like working on behind the scene ) people connected with me were getting good output . :)

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Arghhh this pressure when you are working for the future is not apparent for the present and you are compared with others. 4 years ago when I started my journey I faced criticism about being called a writer and now hehe they are asking me about guides and platforms for earning 😃✌️

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This happens often. When people initially make fun. And later people want guidance from us. The main reason for this is lack of awareness. And not using the skills properly. And the fear of taking risks

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We all have to struggle all the time with such kind of pressure. I think there is no way of escape.

You could add marriage pressure also which is a very common pressure in Asia 😅😅.

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Ha-ha hahaha how I can forget to add this 🤣 this pressure is going to haunt me in next few years !LOL and the pressure after this trauma 😁 kids pressure, their better upbringing pressures, arghhh silent lips. I guess these all boil us some become delicate as a potato and a few get hard like an egg 🐣

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We all want to be happy and end up putting ourselves under pressure trying to ensure our happiness.

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Absolutely true and we can't break this self-imposed cage of pressure.

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The pressure to succeed, meet expectations, and conform to societal norms can be overwhelming and can consume our lives. It's important to recognize that this pressure is often self-imposed, and we have the power to break free from it. It's crucial to prioritize our own well-being and mental health, and to not let external pressure dictate our lives. At the end of the day, it's important to reflect on what truly matters to us and not get caught up in the rat race.

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Honestly, we all have pressure to present ourselves as better people (perfect ones) and we can't attain this throughout our short span life. What we attain is stress and no happiness. Recently I have learned a lesson that if I will normalize myself no one can deny my happiness. I have nothing and no one to rule my nerves and I am enjoying this phase ( but I achieve this after the stress of 11 months lol.)

and to not let external pressure dictate our lives.
I can't give another logic as this point is the theme !LUV

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