When does a person change?

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No evolutionary theory pertained to giving rise to the transition in the personality of human beings. The developmental stages may transform the juvenile into a grown-up and then experienced person but what else changes do arise when a person confronts the diverse situations. Yes, not all the changes are favorable, some make the individual inappropriate too.

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  • Money;

It's obvious that when one gets wealthy he/she may modify the lifestyle. Altering the relationship with new ones with whom he/they may have more benefit. Outfits don't only change but personality changes too. The way of discerning things alters. The competition of grabbing more money makes the one arrogant. The love for people transforms into the love for benefit. Money is the thing for which everyone toils .when one has this privilege, fresh adaptations occur in the personality of individuals. They struggle to retain their status, to make their tenancy in the never-ending panorama. Lust for more and more prominences the person to wrack everyone and everything which pushes to the limit for this longing.

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- Love;

Not everyone has a decent experience with love. If it's true one may resist the whole world aside and may shatter the hearts of many as the notoriety and affection are only bestowed to that defined person. And when this all changes!!!!
The brutal and wracked personality of a person is demonstrated after love breaks up. No one can refute the fact that a person is more pessimistic in this situation. Outrage and disappointment aids to smash everything. This personality alteration is a horrifying one. The situation is when you understand that you are tissue paper, whose sentiments don't matter to anyone.

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- Disrespect;

As respect rewrites the thoughts of a person. Mistreatment of self-esteem cracks the human being too. No one can tolerate this destruction to the ego for a longer time. When the threshold is caught up with, the person evolves more adverse. Psychology terms self-esteem as the elevated hierarchy of human needs. As we are slaves of our thoughts, criticisms are not manageable to digest but when it damages the ego. It's insufferable.

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- Failure;

Few try to rewrite their personality after failure but numerous are in a sedentary mood after being repudiated. Collision and sadness are a company to makes the person more gloomy. To overcome this one employs enough motivation. But this personality change is definite. Staying like water to produce odor or riding like streams to provide a contemporary life. It all counts on the person.

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- Fame;

When the person is in the spotlight, pride obviously, makes the person diverse. Few absorb this prestige and remain unpretentious but few strive to make it durable. Now in this endeavor straight and nasty things do transpire. These circumstances contribute to shuffling the personality aspect to a new direction.

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These are personal viewpoints based on the observation about this thing which changes the personality of a person, some aspects may endorse constructive changes but few are involved in making a person untrue. You can disavow these components, do let me know about your viewpoints.

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I saw a movie once, and one of the cast said, "money doesn't change people, it reveals them". I think I agree.

The person we really are is often revealed when we get hold of money.

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So true their actual personality gets revealed when they get money and fame.

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I for one feel money doesn't change someone. They've always been like that they just lack opportunity.

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In some cases when individuals have money they get out of control and in their greed to enjoy or make this life permanent, they can cross each limit.

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Oh, I think I get what you're saying. They enjoy the money, so they do whatever they can to retain it. If you put it like that, I guess money can actually change people

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I think that among these factors you listed, money changes a person the most. Having access to more money, more resources tends to change a person by a lot and it's mostly in the extremes. Either they're really giving, or they're very cheap and crave more money.

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Exactly they want to change everything when they have money, the heart gets more conserved and greed increases. Thanks for feedback.

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Change is inevitable, the only constant
One can hope when favourable and unfavourable situations are introduced, we grow and change for the better.

#DreemPort

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If the change is for betterment it's well and good but if it's going to distort your personality. It's not reasonable.
Thanks for reading dear.

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I think one of the only constants in life is change and it will always be

I think with perhaps the exception of money all the others you list cause one yo reassess their life and make changes even if subconsciously

And perhaps that’s true with money but I kind of feel that’s a little different money just enables a person to do what they have always wanted to do but never had the resources to do so is it a change or more just revealing their true intents

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Exceptional cases are there I saw people who become more generous after having money but some still think about themselves and don't bother where their money should be invested.
These changes which are only self-centered and are not constructive are wrong I guess
Thanks for reading 😍😊

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This is a very well-researched and well-written article. I really enjoyed reading this article.

One thing I see happening in the sports industry, in particular, is that young up-and-coming athletes are now being put through colleges and they get prepared for financial success and business/financial management.

There was a time when young athletes would suddenly rise to fame and make lots of money. That often had drug and alcohol abuse as a result and often even the abuse of women. All because these athletes weren't ready for this on an emotional level and it was just too much to handle. After making millions, they would often end up in bankruptcy after their sporting career came to an end.

With these athletes now being educated and prepared for what lies ahead, they can cope better and is more often now ready to enter the world of business after their sporting career is over.

I do not say it eliminates all kinds of problems. Things like pride and arrogance are still a big problem, but at least there is some progress being made.

Thank you for a great article.

I got here via @dreemport.

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You have taken this discussion to an absolute conclusive point. This happens in the entertainment industry too, media war shows us how celebrities and iconic personalities get revealed when they have money, fame, and each private of life.
Thanks for such amazing feedback😊

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I feel like nothing really changes a person, it just reveals who they were because there are people who would go through all these and still remain the same.

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Reality is only revealed and we term it a chance.
Yes, some get strong after all this and it's the positive change if it occurs by chance.

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You tend to know a person's real character when the person becomes rich or become famous. In some of these people, pride becomes the order of the day for them and they disregard everyone, seeing them as nobody. You would be surprise to know that these set of persons used to be the most humble set of persons. But money and fame changed them totally.

When it comes to love,i couldn't agree less because like they say, the worse person to advice is a person is love. They will definitely not want to listen and even understand what you are trying to tell them.

Thanks for sharing this..

@dreemport directed me to your post

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