If only time could go slower

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As a little boy, I always wanted to grow up really fast. I looked up to and admired young men because they had freedom to do whatever they want when they want without being told what to do. I on the other hand was a kid so I couldn't make a lot of decisions for myself.


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Most of my decisions were made by my parents. They did a pretty good job, but of course as a kid without proper knowledge of how the world works there will definitely always be disagreements. I spent a large part of my childhood wanting it to go faster so I can finally be "Free",and live the life I've always wanted without anyone's influence.

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But now that I am at that stage that I visualized and wanted to be in so much, I realize it's not the bed of roses I'd imagined it to be. Who knew making your own decisions would also mean bearing the consequences on your own :D. There's also the scary thoughts that comes into your head once in a while, putting fear into you and telling you that in the end you won't be successful, or how you are always wasting time and should be doing productive things, and then when you do the productive things it seems like you're missing out on all the good things you're to enjoy at this age. There is also the pressure to keep in touch with people, even though it's impossible to keep up with everyone at a time. And don't let me get started on the bills, The bills are almost endless.

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But despite all of this I wish time would go a bit slower at this time. Why? You may ask. Because this is a very crucial stage of life and at this stage the decisions you make follow you for life. The thought of all that scares me at times. So most times I just want it a bit slow so I can achieve a lot at the time and have a very happy and comfortable life when I get married and have kids. Sometimes I feel I'm on the right track, other times I feel like I'm nowhere near there yet. It can get annoying at times but I guess I just have to keep doing my best and hopefully I can achieve my dreams.

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This is my entry to @galenkp's weekend engagement contest. I went with option 4

Have you ever wished time would move more slowly, or quickly? When and why?

Thank you for reading. Have a great week.

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5 years this has been happening to me, it started here, around people that are still here. Homeland security has done nothing at all, they are not here to protect us. Dont we pay them to stop shit like this? The NSA, CIA, FBI, Police and our Government has done nothing. Just like they did with the Havana Syndrome, nothing. Patriot Act my ass. The American government is completely incompetent. The NSA should be taken over by the military and contained Immediately for investigation. I bet we can get to the sources of V2K and RNM then. https://peakd.com/gangstalking/@acousticpulses/electronic-terrorism-and-gaslighting--if-you-downvote-this-post-you-are-part-of-the-problem

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If you put your source link for your first image below your first paragraph your posts will look, and be, more appealing.

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Thanks a lot for the tip. Done

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Excellent. I don't know why people do it as it detracts from the actual post. I suppose they think to out the link right with the image, but under the first paragraph works fine.

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5 years this has been happening to me, it started here, around people that are still here. Homeland security has done nothing at all, they are not here to protect us. Dont we pay them to stop shit like this? The NSA, CIA, FBI, Police and our Government has done nothing. Just like they did with the Havana Syndrome, nothing. Patriot Act my ass. The American government is completely incompetent. The NSA should be taken over by the military and contained Immediately for investigation. I bet we can get to the sources of V2K and RNM then. https://peakd.com/gangstalking/@acousticpulses/electronic-terrorism-and-gaslighting--if-you-downvote-this-post-you-are-part-of-the-problem

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i have been there too, there was a time i want to be an adult so i can be free, but now the only thing adult has to offer is freedom, but the freedom is not really freedom, work and trying to survive already took the freedom from us..

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Indeed. We have freedom, but responsibities take it away

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I think you are not alone in this "aspect of thinking". All of us feel this from time to time. Having a growing kid at my household and seeing his activities on a daily basis, he definitely wants to grow up very quickly! We have already realized the effects of "growing up" but he doesn't know that yet!

Good luck for you in the competition.

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Yes, Kids don't know what they have until they don't have it anymore. Thanks for stopping by

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In time, instead of trying to bend/slow-down/fast-forward chaos into your willing, you'll master the art of surfing the chaos. I'm telling this but I'm not there yet 😅

Thank you for the post !CTP !PIZZA

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I hope I master it soon. You'll get there soon as well

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By now I want to do a Cher and turn back time. Dont get me wrong, I love my life and I have become a better and wiser person over time, but I would love to do things again as the person I am today. Thanks for sharing through Listnerds !CTP

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We have things we wish we could have done differently no matter who we are.

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Time is our most valuable asset and time management is hard to master but valuable virtue. Good article, made me think. Thank you.

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I'm glad I could give you something to think about

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Trust me, when you get to the point that you have more years behind you than in front of you, then you really wish that time would go slower! Just savor each day. That's the best advice I can give you! I found your post on Listnerds.

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Alas I meet the guy who chose one of the usernames I wanted to pick when I was signing up. Nice to meet you bozz. Thanks for the advice.

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How long ago did you sign up? It's funny how popular this nickname is. I often find it already taken myself.

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Over a year now, going to be two years by December. It's a very popular nickname

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Yeah, I guess so! I had you by about three years. Sorry.

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It is amazing how often we want something that we cannot have. Time to speed up, time to slow down, etc. We need to learn to be happy with what we have.

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Human desires are insatiable, XD

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Wow you are very correct... Everyone that has a responsibilities on their shoulder would always wish the time goes a little bit slower just so you can achieve a whole lot

So many "what if" keeps lingering in your brain especially if it's a new idea or project you want to embark on

It is well and I know God will see us all through... Let's keep striving cus no one knows what the next seconds holds for us

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Indeed 😁 God help us. Thanks for stopping by

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In fact, time passes very quickly when a person is happy, when he is unhappy, when he is worried, when something bad happens.

Since we cannot manage time, we think that time passes quickly, in fact, time passes quickly or slowly according to our current mood. We must discover the way to fit a lot into time.

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Yes, time management. I'm still working on it, but hopefully I can master it.

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You summarized well. We cannot slow down time - we just need to accept it and do our best.Time waits on no one - unfortunately.

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Indeed. We can only learn to make use of what we have

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surely, your dream will be achieved.

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Amen, thanks man

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