Just face it head on
For most, life started in easy mode. They have a parent or a guardian who made it their duty to make sure they get all of the things that they need to be better people. As a child there's little to no problem, other than the "I want this, I want that" and crying when we don't get it. Then we grow up a bit and things get a bit more complex than that. We now know a lot more stuff, curious about everything, and are probably interested in having lots of friends and just enjoying the fun side of life.
We grow older again and now there are feelings and attraction to the opposite sex, there's a lot more responsibility on our shoulders, we can slowly see a reduced impact of our parents or guardians on our daily life, we start thinking of what the future holds. Some are uncertain and unsure, some have a well thought out plan and roadmap of how they'll be super successful in so and so years. Time passes again, for a lot of people things didn't go as planned and they're probably not exactly where they thought they'd be, for a few their plans worked and they're super successful, for an even smaller percentage they didn't make any plans but things just happened and they made it. From here onwards there are so many different ways life can go, but one thing is sure, for most (if not all) it is more challenging.
At every stage of life there are challenges they just keep getting tougher. I think we can all agree that taking care of a family is a lot harder than living as a single man. The farther we go the harder because it is expected that at so and so stage we should be able to handle them. At times we may feel like we are not ready but we have to face it. Pushing it back will only make things pile up and ultimately become worse in the end (Trust me I have a lot of experience with this).
Before when adversaries came I used to panic and be afraid, but these days I find myself calm. At times a little bit too calm for my liking. I have learnt to just accept that It'll come and I'll face them, and I'll be fine in the end.
So what's the point of saying all this? Honestly, I don't know, it's just all I can seem to think of I guess, how everything just gets more and more challenging, and we just have to adapt. Hopefully scaling through all these challenges leads to success. And maybe then things will get easier from there or maybe not :)
I hope I find out.
The craziest thing I have come to learn about life and painfully accept is that life is full of uncertainties.
A good number of us had dreams that life sucked away without our permission, replacing their dreams with fears and panic.
We clearly do not know what the future holds anymore, we only console ourselves with what the older ones tell us, "if we don't give up, our dreams will come true one day".
We hold these words dear to our heart because it rekindles the hope that maybe things are not as bad as it seems.
I do hope we will all scale through it. Most importantly, I hope it leads to success.
A comment, proudly written by the love of your life... Kisses 😘😘😘😘
You have no idea how happy seeing this comment made me. I was probably going to shift it back and let this post just fade into the dark abyss where I keep so many other posts, but I kept saying to myself "I want that kiss" hehe. And I got it and it feels good (My Highlight of today). Alongside that, I won the doot, which makes it feel so much better.
No one does, we just have to plan and adapt accordingly. Playing those words over and over in our head when we need motivation.
I hope so too 😘😘
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it's life and we can't avoid it. As we grow up our responsibility start to increase and with is the difficulty increase automatically.
We need to face that kind of situation in a clam mind and even the situation don't exist in our side.
Yes a calm mind is needed, If you're not calm there's a high chance of mistake.
How are you doing bro?
I am fine and everything is going very well. I am just trying to be more active here and I am working for it. Nothing more.
How about you? and is your exam started?
Oh that's nice. My exams are yet to start. They're starting next month. Getting prepared for them.
Best of luck for your exam and I hope you will do well in your exam.