I Could Do It Because...

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This isn't about the Kdrama Uncanny counter, where the statement was used tremendously. This is about life. A true life skilled story.

When it comes to speaking, a lot of people can do it, but not everyone can truly communicate, and this is a big skill people lack. But, I am different. Growing up, I was known to be a talker. Mehn! My mouth moves a lot, and nobody has it last on me during a discussion. I could speak up in public places where voices need to be heard, and my voice is very loud if I want it to be.

Hehe, I don't know if I was brought up that way, or maybe I inherited it, but I do like that side of me. The part where I can pick up the microphone and speak into it without being shy or scared out of my pants. I know people who are shy, I have met with people who would rather stay locked in a dark room than speak where people are presented, and I get it.

While some go to school to have that part studied as a course, there are others who prefer life that way as it seems safer and I understand them. Humans are little meanie beings, and not everyone has the heart to face such people.

However, I have always loved being in places where my voice can be heard. Not like dominating others but inputting my ideas on what has been tabled, and I have to confess that I am super good at it.

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I have been in situations where an impromptu talk needs to be presented, and I am giving little or no time at all to prepare and I have always carried my listener along, which has always been lovely.

My skill has helped me in so many ways that I am grateful for as I know without it, I would not have met good people who have swam their ways into my life like ducklings...Hehe, alright that was a joke and it is very funny to me which is the main thing here.

I remembered how I had gotten to meet great intelligent lecturers and interacted with them. My H.O.D and I were super close because of my skill, then while schooling, and we still talk once in a while after so long. Though I love talking, giving a listening ear has always been the interesting part of it all as with it, I have gotten to learn and it has also helped me to stand up and speak when needed.

I made a lot of friends in my department the day I did my defense. I know you would have felt it, too. The hawk eyes stare at your move as your matric number is called. It was crazy and it was not fun then as a lot of people messed up in their speech, some fainted, and the others came to showcase their Slay queen talent but got ridiculed. However, there were those like me who stood up and spoke.

Gosh! I never thought I could pull it off, but deep down, I knew I Could Do It because I was made for this. The silence that took over the hall as I walked out, the looks of people piercing into my soul screaming, Let's have another laugh so please faint or mess up.* But, I never did. I didn't even know how I started, but I do know the moment my voice filled the air, there was more silence as I spoke and played out some program I did to go.

And, I can assure you that at the end of it all, the sound of claps that filled my ears and heart was alone to build a castle and also travel to Mars. Right after that, I became super popular for my own liking as my name dropped off people's lips for a long time.

Hehe, and right then, I knew my skill paid off, though I didn't like the attention on me and had to slip away from socials to enjoy my sweet alone time, which was needed. And that was how it has been and still is.


This is my response to Hivenaija weekly prompt.


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Still yours truly,
Balikis.

Thanks for reading.

Peace be unto those who crave it and more to those who chase it away.



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Ones skills can take one to the greater hight. Yours was exceptional.
Trying to feel impacted through your skill of talking is the best. Some use theirs as noise makers.

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Yeah, noise makers.... tell me about it. Thanks for stopping by 😊

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Well, communication is a skill and can also be a natural inbuilt skill and I admire people who speak up when necessary and not shy away from situations. Well, when I was much younger a part of me was shy while the other was bold and fearless and with every stage of my life I experienced, my bold and confident self displayed which surprised some people around me 😄

I stood up for those who were bullied in my secondary school and when I am around, they try not bully anyone.

I remember one hot afternoon I was in market with my mum, getting some things to return back to school (University) after my industrial training. We had exhausted the cash with us and went to the the bank in the market to withdraw at the ATM stand. The queue was a long one and the ATM was unnecessarily dispensing cash slowly, so we queued. A soldier man came in his uniform and wanted to withdraw once and go without joining the queue. At that time I was the 5th person and when he asked to withdraw I told those in my front that if they try it, they are giving out their space, they looked at me and respected themselves and the queue 😂. I turned to the soldier and said "please sir, join the queue we have been waiting here in this scorching sun." He had to queue up.

For me, that's the right thing to do. At times people fear to talk to these people forgetting they are human beings.

I believe there's a way to pass a message for the receiver to decode.

Thanks for sharing dear.

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Haha, I know, right? The surprise look in people's eyes when you spoke boldly. It is nice to know.

Standing up to bullies is always a fine thing to do, and I do respect your actions towards that.

It is good you put that soldier in his place. Being a uniform man does not give you the right to do as you wish. And I am glad he respected himself, too.

Yes, I do agree. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this. It was a beautiful read.

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Asin eh!

You're welcome dear.

Thanks, I enjoyed reading yours and love your bold moves. Don't mind me, I was carried away with my own experience and just poured out almost 300 words 😂

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Thank you. Haha, I like that you did that. Thank you so much for letting out your words.

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I am wondering how the soldier replied. You are a brave !LADY. I am impressed

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Well, the soldier had to join the queue too, which is the right thing to do from the outset.

Thanks, Ambs !luv for stopping by 😊. And yes, @winanda is a brave soul.

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Awwn! Thanks so much Amber 🥰
Well, the soldier was also surprised and after I spoke to him and before he queued, he said he was rushing somewhere, I also told him that we (my mum and I) were also rushing somewhere.

Actually, as I was speaking to him, my mum was nudging me 😂 (she was a bit scared). After we withdrew some cash and left, she said that, what I did was risky, what if he pulled out his gun 😂, I laughed and told her he wouldn't because I wasn't rude to him. I told her that if we don't talk to them to do the right thing, they will keep using their uniform as some sort of power to do as they wish anytime and anyday.

Yippee! Thanks so much @amberkashif and @balikis95 🤗

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The mom's fear makes perfect sense. There are some really bad people in the uniform who take the respectful argument to their ego. Nevertheless, your courage is applaudable. You are right. We need to raise voice to overcome the wrong

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Yes, you're right. I hope we don't encounter the bad ones.

I really appreciate our communication her, it was a good one.
Thanks Amber 🤗❤️

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The ability to speak confidently and freely in public is a great skill and I can feel and enjoy how great at it you are from your writing.

But some people can be funny sha, laughing harder so you could mess up, thank goodness you are great at your communication skills.

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Yes, it surely is.

Haha, that's how people can be. Well, thank goodness. Thanks for stopping by 😊.

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Naturally I'm not a good talker but I found myself in a job that demands talking so I had to adjust but after work I go back to silent mode.

For public speaking, please allow me be the listener 😂

#dreemerforlife

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Haha... I get it, everyone with what they prefer. Thanks for stopping by 😊.

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It's always good to be comfortably vocal - it makes people around them feel safe and comfortable. For the quiet ones, it's easy to make wrong assumptions about them.

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Haha....that's right. Being vocal is nice as far as you just don't talk because you can.

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