A married or Unmarried life?

After a certain age, your family members, relatives, your friends, and known people start bothering you with a very common question. That is when you are getting married? Sometimes that did make me a bit awkward, I would be like really is it important to do that? I am in my last 20's my family members and relatives asked me this question a lot. They do ask me if you have someone then you can tell that to us 😅.

Not sure why after a certain age please tell bothering others to get married most of them are already married. They don't even have any logic behind their arguments. Sometimes the pressure is too much. I am not against marriage life, it is good if you do want to but if you don't want to then you don't simple. But it is really hard to explain a simple thing to your family and your friends. They did find some points to argue with you and tease you.

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It's not like I am not interested in women 🙃 (most of the time you never get what you want). But that thing is I think I am not ready for that now. There are so many reasons for that the most common is independency. If you are an Indian then I am sure you can feel me. I have seen that most the families did get divided after new marriage did happen their families. Everyone did the same but mostly everyone is doing that.
Not all do WhatsApp joint family now everyone wants a nuclear family. Sad but true.

If you are an earning person then you can calculate how hard it's for you to survive alone after marriage you did get responsibilities of another person too. These days we do see that both the couples are on a job still they didn't have enough money to leave a good lifestyle. One seems to be happy with what they have everyone wants more and more. If you are a married person then I am sure you do think that the single one is happy. Single people think the same.

Marriage is not just a meeting of two souls that is more than that. If you do think that you are ready to take the responsibilities on your own then you are free to do what you want to do. If you are still dependent upon others then the chances are you married life is not going along last that far. If you did get married then maybe you will change, I have seen so many kisses around me after they are married their life totally changed. Life can go upwards or downwards after that, that totally depend upon what you do with your life after that. If you are Dependent upon someone then remember one thing no one is gonna take care of you and your family forever, no is gonna be with you always 🙃(this is the reality of life).

My family members do force me to get married but I am not ready for that responsibility. Not sure but is going to be in the future. But if things will go according to me then I am not going married yet 🥱. Let's see what will happen. I've seen that time did pass very fast I was in my college days when one of our classmates did get married and now he is a father of two children. This is only one example I think 25% of my classmates from school and my college are married and I am sure that in one or two years around 75% of them will be married. Maybe I will be one of them who knows?

Now the time is not good as compared to the past, many marriages don't even last long weeks. There are so many cases happened in my town where the bride ran away with someone else the next day she did get married. So trusting someone is getting really hard you can't say what the person is thinking. Even if you are trying to find someone to get married it is really hard to get one that is gonna choose you too. Everyone is so much picky these days, not everyone is gonna married some celebrity. Life is so uncertain you never know what can happen to you in the next turn of your life.

Even if you are married or single don't get unhappy with small things try to find what makes you happy. Little-little things did make your relationship better over time. Destiny has written something for you too.

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