Discrimination is everywhere

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Discrimination is a common thing all around, we all often see so many cases of that around us. Mostly in a crowded area. Imagine a situation a girl is slapping a boy in a crowded area, most of us will think that the boy must have done something wrong. But this is not the case all the time, sometimes the girls can be wrong too, and if you will look over it when you will find out that most of the time the girls are the reason for that not all the time. If you will listen to the reason why they are fighting I am sure you are going to laugh, sometimes the reasons are very pathetic. If a boy is doing the same to a girl then I am sure that so many of the people who are walking around are gonna stop him. And those who were stopping him would be mostly men. I think you did get a clear picture of how discrimination happens in this world.
This is what I have seen and witnessed around me.

Imagine if a girl slapped a boy on a bus just because the boy mistakenly touched her. Most of the passengers are going to support the girl even though the boy has no internet intentions to do that. I am sure that we all did been in this type of situation once in a while.


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If I am allowed I can share thousands of examples like this, but I am not sporting this type of thing at all because not all the time it is true sometimes the girls are right too. But in the first place, you can't figure out who is wrong or who is right. I am sure both of them going to defend themselves. In my opinion, if you did encounter this type of situation try to avoid getting in the fight in the first place, and try to see what is really going on. If you did get involved fight in the middle then the first thing you should do is to separate both of them. If they are only abusing each other with words then you can make them stop talking. It doesn't mean that you have to place your hand on their mouth, not like that 🙃.

I didn't get in a situation like this if I am not wrong that did happen almost 4 years back.
I was in my college days, I used to travel my sister's house often in a month or two. I used to travel by bus because the ticket is cheap as compared to other transport services. I do I didn't vomit while traveling but still I do prefer a window seat because if I didn't get one then I did feel some anxiety. While traveling on a bus I was alone that doesn't mean the bus is empty 😛. We did cover around half of the distance, and after that, a couple came on the bus. There were around the age of 35 I guess. I was sitting at the window site the woman was sitting next to me, I was listing to music on my earphone. She asked me to give her the window seat, and she said I am not feeling well I think I will vomit. I like okay you can the window seat, you can tell me when you will vomit.

She was Staring at me like I have done something wrong to her. I was like, what I did do? The passengers did start staring at me too, like I have done something wrong. I did get on the Bus first and I was on the window seat so technically I own that one for the Journey at least right? The woman and his husband started commenting on me but I did refuse their comments by putting my earphones on my ears. But they were sitting close to me that's why I can listen to them clearly not loudly but a little bit. I did feel a bit embarrassed after this. But I was like I am not gonna leave this window seat you can do whatever you want to do. They don't have so option left so they set beside me and guess what she was totally fine over the journey.

But she and her husband made me feel like I have did something wrong. What do you think?

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Just like the first example you gave, that discrimination is so bad. It's what's happening in some homes, if a guy beats his wife, they call it domestic violence but it the lady beats up the husband, everyone goes into hidding. It's not fair at all

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Indeed, totally agree and men don't even wants to share that with others. They do akward to share there story with other. They do accepts the situation 😔

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Discrimination is everywhere in this world and as for those couple they are just jealous of your seat because you got on the bus before them so automatically any seat you choose belongs to you

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Indeed, there are millions of examples like this and we all do Have our stories to tell. In some places we might me wrong too and sometime others. Sad but truth 😔

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I have been in this kind of situations many times and it's always annoying how the passenger that came late will think it's her right to seat at a position you came early to occupy

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I was watching online on Facebook and I saw something like this.. ladies miss behave with guys, some go as far as grabbing the guys butt in public, some kiss the guy in the presence of their girlfriends and all that. But if a guy does that, it will be a different story and the guy is likely to go in prison for it

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To be honest If I were in your case I would done the same thing. I don't care who think what about me because there is nobody who can make me concern. After encountered such kind of situation I might not show humanity to them if they needed. I think in such kind of situation you could avoid it smartly saying that you also have the same problem and for that reason you sit beside window.

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Many people apply social and emotional blackmail to extort money from others. Even though they have no need.

It is part of an inferiority complex, when you see someone trying to be above others and always abusing everyone. He is a person with a complex, who does not accept his situation and in fact, in numerous cases, he does not even realize the real problem he has.

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