Never remain in an abusive relationship.

Greetings once again great people of this wonderful community, I feel really glad to be here and today I want to write on a topic that is less similar to what I would usually write about. I am far from being an expert in relationship matters but more than often, I have realized that so many people remain in abusive relationships just because of the fear of being single.

People lose their lives, lose their morals and lose other important people in their lives simply because they are trying to remain relevant in a relationship where there is no mutual respect or agreement. In this simple post of mine, I want to share relevant ways to identify an abusive relationship and how to get out of an abusive relationship.

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You know when your relationship is abusive when;

• When there is a case of physical harm like kicking, slapping, hitting, or shaking.

• They threaten to hurt themselves or hurt you the moment you walk out of the relationship.

• Make you feel unworthy or less relevant.

• Always want to monitor your movement.

• Does not want you to spend time away from your friends at all, always feel jealous about it.

• Asks for social media passwords so they can monitor each of your moves.

• Forcing you into any form of sexual activity.

• They want to control your lifestyle, who you speak with, what you wear, and basically everything about you.

Now, that you know that any sign f this action being displayed in a relationship signifies abuse, you must figure out a way to get out of an abusive relationship as much as you can, clearly because you deserve better and there is always something better waiting for you out there.

Let's speak about how to get out of an abusive relationship.

• Speak to a trustworthy person: If there is something a lot of abused people do not get to do, it would be not speaking to other people. Speaking to someone you can confide in, will definitely make you feel relieved and of course open your eyes to the possibilities of getting help.

• Improve on self-worth: Understand that you have the right to be treated well and treated right.

• Get help from experts: Do not always feel you can handle the situation on your own, an abuser would do anything to keep the abused, it is your duty to break free, and breaking free means you need to speak with the appropriate experts that would help you provide a solution to the problem.

Conclusion.

This is my own little tip on how to get out of an abusive relationship and as I mentioned earlier, I am in no way a relationship expert, so please feel free to add your own opinion in the comment section and we can rub minds together. Thank you for your time.