The True Definition of Friendship.

In our generation, we are used to generalizing the term “friendship”, we call our colleagues at work friends, we call our business associates friends, when in the real essence of things, not everyone we meet are our friends, there are standards to quality friendship and for some of the relationships we have, it is basically a beautiful work relationship and nothing else, the moment we begin to see things in that light, it becomes easy for us to define relationships for what they truly are.

I would like to highlight some of the really important qualities of friendship, this will help us clearly identify when the friendship is indeed a genuine one, we would also be able to differentiate between normal relationships and genuine friendship, this way, they won’t be mistaken one for another.

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Qualities of a good friendship

Stays through difficult times: A good friend isn’t just there because of the benefits they can get when things are good, the genuine love that you both share will make them stick with you and stay by your side even when things are going really bad. At that point, they will become a shoulder you can conveniently lean and rely on.

Will not put you down: A good friend will not jeopardize the value of your friendship just because of an opportunity that presents itself. A good friend knows that the quality of what you share supersedes the immediate satisfaction that is to be obtained in its stead.

You genuinely enjoy each other’s company:
A friend is someone you can conveniently speak to and share beautiful stories and moments, you understand appropriately that your secret is safe with this person and every moment spent is really enjoyed.

Will correct but not judge: A good friend will not remain quiet and watch you go through the wrong path, a good friend will correct you but not harshly and will never judge you or speak ill about you with others.

Certainly, it isn’t good enough to expect valuable friendship from others and not be able to reciprocate the energy. These are tips to become a better friend as well.

Be a supportive friend: Supporting our friends is the true definition of friendship, moral support, financial support, showing up for them when needed is the best value of a friendship.

Listen carefully: Almost everyone speaks but only a few persons listens, a good listening ability is required for a good relationship to strive.

**Be playful **: Becoming a playful person will actually make your friends feel comfortable with and around you. No one wants to be around an overly serious person.