How To Pick A Bad Spouse To Marry

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How many couples can say that their marriages are actually perfect?

Many of them are just following along if they are real with you.

Would they still choose to marry that man or that lady if they had the chance today?

Consider a Saturday occasion that almost went viral online, particularly among bloggers.

Popular Nollywood actor Solomon Akiyesi attempted to con his wife.

Under the pretense of shooting a movie in Lagos, he left his pregnant wife in Portharcourt, but it was later found that he was actually planning to marry his mistress there.

After learning of the situation, his wife stormed the chapel all the way from Port Harcourt and ruined the wedding.

Solomon Akiyesi's response when questioned why he did what he did was, "My marriage wasn't just it." He had dated that woman for 7 years before getting married to her for another 6 years.

totaling 13 years in all.

What did he say, though? My marriage wasn't the only issue.

How many marriages are currently in such a mess?

a lot of them.

They get married for foolish reasons and, after years of struggle, either yell their grievances, leave, or act as desperate as Solomon Akiyesi.

You don't need to get married and be unhappy.

You ought to be content.

I'll give you some tips to help you avoid choosing the incorrect spouse.

I'll demonstrate this to you using reverse logic.

How To Pick A Wrong Partner To Marry

Marry someone because age isn't a factor

According to research, individuals who marry young have a higher likelihood of divorcing or remaining unhappy in their union.

They frequently lack the maturity necessary to understand their true desires, which is the cause.

Due to life experience and maturity, people who marry in their late 20s or early 30s usually know what they want and are able to make decisions that will keep them happy for a longer amount of time.

Never rush into getting married because you feel your age. Keep in mind that you have the benefit of experience due to your age.

Make your choice slowly and carefully.

Marry a decent person rather than a godly person

There is a distinction.

A godly person is the church, a nice person attends it!

A godly person is of the faith; a good person is polite but not a follower of Christ. Get married to a Christian who follows Jesus.

Never give that up.

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Get married to someone who consumes alcohol without moderation

You did indeed hear me correctly. Anyone who drinks is at risk of lying (A lot of people who drink without moderation cheat on their spouse).
The individual is a waster ( Since drinking is addictive the person will waste money and resources).

The individual has fighting potential.

It is likely that the male would hit his wife in this situation. The wife, on the other hand, will scream at her husband and argue with him.

Marry someone who doesn't go your way

Marriages are not preserved by love.

Yes, it might begin the process of marriage, but what holds a couple together are comparable ideals.

MARRY A PERSON BECAUSE HE HAS POTENTIALS OR RESOURCES:

Do not misunderstand me. The so-called potential that the man who wants to marry you has mentioned is still just that—words.

Not the man's potential but YOUR CONVICTION THAT GIVES YOU PEACE TO MARRY HIM WITH OR WITHOUT ANYTHING IS WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT.

Additionally, just because a person is wealthy today does not guarantee that they will always be wealthy.

It comes down to beliefs.

There are plenty others. But for now, fill up on these.

I remain your favourite writer, Blackdovy.