Doing it or not 🤔🤐 | | Weekend-Engagement 153.
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Hi guys, happy Friday! I hope you are having a great day and that you are enjoying this weekend to the fullest, today I will share with you my participation in the weekend initiative proposed by @galenkp , where I will answer the following conundrum.... Your best friend's partner (whom you find very attractive) starts flirting with you and then suggests a one-night sexual encounter. Your friend will never find out. do you do it or not? ... Without further ado, here is my answer.
Considering that my best friend's partner I see him as what he is ''my best friend's partner'' I think I would never have a friendly relationship or beyond that with him, I'm not saying I wouldn't get along or have a neutral relationship with that person, but I feel that just like men we women have codes and for me having a lot of trust doesn't look good. I always try to keep a limit.
The most important thing for me is to be clear that the most important person is my best friend, she is the one who has always been and will always be there for me, the people in her life can be fleeting so I would not see well damage a friendship of years for a meeting that only will last a few minutes or in this case one night.
So answering the question. No, I wouldn't, whether I think the person is beautiful or not, I think I would immediately tell my best friend about the situation which of course I consider a bit uncomfortable, it's up to her whether she believes me or not, I comply with being honest and telling her what's going on.
Now, if my friend decides not to do anything about it and the situation continues, I think the best thing would be to stay away from her and her partner, I would not like to be involved in an uncomfortable situation that I am sure I would not tolerate because of the way I am, so I would not like to be immersed in gossip or bad comments. I think the best thing is always to be honest with yourself and with the people you love.
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Who is galekp? Not me, that's for sure.
If you're tagging people it's best to get their name right.
Sorry, I think anyone can make a small mistake, but it is correctable, I missed an N I have already edited it. Sorry for the inconvenience. Have a nice night!
Yes, a mistake, only you made the same one last week too so I commented to correct you.
I understand. Don't worry, it won't happen again.
you are right sister, don't do it better because it is a negative thing and will have a negative effect on us in the future
I agree friend, it seems to me that I would do exactly the same, I prefer that to creating an uncomfortable environment.
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It's an uncomfortable situation friend, it's true, but your attitude towards something like this speaks of what a great friend and person you are. Some people don't understand that, I too try to keep boundaries and not let anyone cross the line of respect because that to me is a big mistake.
I totally agree with you, my friend. The best thing to do is to be honest and if she doesn't do anything, the best thing to do would be to stay away from that environment to avoid problems.
I agree with you, loyalty is a very important value in life. If we are not loyal we will always be incomplete beings. Greetings.
Very good answer friend, I really like your way of thinking, a good person would never ruin a friendship for something like that, it's true, women also have our codes and we must always respect both our friends and their partners.
Hi bluevibes. Yeah, the best thing to do is to let your best friend know as quickly as possible. It won't be nice to keep such thing to yourself even if you won't do it.
As your best friend, she needs that information to act appropriately. I love this piece.