Accusations without proof is defamatory

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I almost attempted to skip this prompt until I remember that I am also not free from accusation and it is annoying when you are being accused of things you did not do...

I am someone who always put others in my shoe before taking a step because I won't want to do something that I also won't like if done to me...

In my former apartment, I have a neighbor who lived together with his girlfriend, there is no how you won't interact with your neighbor, it is either they want to borrow your television or your salt [just kidding about the tv] but somehow something will get you talking with them...

We were 4 neighbors and there was harmony, It was peaceful until the guy started misbehaving, which I noticed and I also know he was being like that because his girlfriend used to talk to me....

I like to keep my distance if I feel that my presence is causing a commotion or not wanted, so I stop talking to the girlfriend and the jealous boyfriend to the extent that I even stopped replying to their greetings because I don't pretend, I do things as spirit lead and what my spirit tells me is to keep distance for peace to reign..

The girl reported me to another neighbor we were both close to and when that one called me and ask for the reason, I told her I notice both of them are having issues that could lead to a fight or is already leading to fighting because of me, and I don't like such things so it is better for everyone to maintain their lane...

She understand my point but said I should not act that way and that the guy also told her about it and he really didn't say I was having anything with his girl, just that the closeness is too much, to which I responded by telling her that the best solution is not talking at all because once we start greeting and talking, there is no way the discussion won't be prolonged especially when we always have something to say...

At a point, I realize the girl didn't offend me and there was nothing really going on between us, so no point in giving her attitude, the insecure guy is the one who deserves my 100 percent attitude which I gave him till he left the house...

I understand that when guys love their partner, they tend to be overprotective and insecure but then they should not overdo it because it might actually lead to that very thing they do not want...

You can't monitor a girl if she wants to cheat, she will and you won't know, I won't say we should trust them either but it is not everything you must react to, at least be patient enough to catch her red-handed before being paranoid...

As for me, anything involving lovers or married people, I always avoid it... I hate drama...

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I am sure since neighbors share everything like you said, your insecure neighbor was thinking he was sharing his girlfriend with you too 😂

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🤣 there are some things i can't share with others, if only he knows😊

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😂😂 well his insecurity wouldn't let him see that

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Those kind of dramas can easily get out of proportion because the accusation will not only be false but sometimes overly exaggerated. Neighbours often overstep their boundaries.

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it always get out of hands, this is why i like to keep my distance especially from couple or lovers

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