Birthday gifts is earned not to be demanded
It is somehow when people ignore/abandon you for months only to appear again when they need something from you..
This is even better than people that appear suddenly when their birthday is near... Just this year I have seen 3 people do that shit with me...
The most annoying is the one I am going to share first...
We have not chatted for months, which is fine, everyone is busy, but she blocked me from seeing her status for a reason best known to her, which is also fine but then 5 days before your birthday, you invaded my privacy telling me your birthday is near and what gift am I going to give you....
I found the chat itself irritating and i know i was not the only one she dmed, she must have done the same to many other people on her contact list as well, so it is not as if we are special, she just thinks birthday is a means of getting many gifts...
The other one is a girl too, as usual, we have not been chatting for months as well and suddenly she became so chatty, even I was surprised at what happened and why the sudden change but she helped me solve the puzzle when she also said her birthday is in 2 days and what am i giving her...
The last one was a bit funny, we met somewhere last year, and suddenly she messaged me on Facebook, asking for my Whatsapp line, we started chatting only for her to also tell me her birthday is in days, arrrrrrrrrrrrrg like for real? what stupid trend is this, this third girl disappeared after the day she called her birthday passed and she never message me again...
I find this kind of behavior disgusting, you just don't go about demanding for a gift from people on your birthday, especially people you ain't close with...
A birthday gift is earned, when you are good to people, close to them, you do not need to ask them for the gift before they give you something worthy...
Most people that ask for this gift are not even close, those close to you won't ask for gift because they want you, your presence not your gift but it is those users that always find a way to reap where they did not sow....
I just ignore them once they make such a demand or ask for a gift they didn't keep in my hand... Most of them don't even know your birthday nor want to know... They just want a gift, disappear and then appear again next birthday for another gift lol....
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I am strongly with you on this, I find it utterly disgusting when people demand gifts, some even go as far as emotionally blackmailing you.
Another thing I find really funny is people creating group chats to share their pictures so people can post them on their birthdays, total bullshit!
Thanks for sharing 👍
oh yea, reminds me of someone I know a few years back, he will send his pictures to his contact and ask them to post him, kinda funny but it should not be mandatory as well, these things should be done whole heartedly by those who loves you not force or persuade them into doing it... I personally don't see any big deal in a birthday, i don't celebrate my birthday, it is just another day on the calendar
I do celebrate my birthdays but I can't stand those unnecessary traditions that people have incorporated into birthdays
yea so ridiculous...
Funny but true. When it comes to birthday gifts, it's about giving and receiving, but a lot of people (especially girls/ladies) are only interested in receiving. As you've observed, I have had people suddenly become chatty with me a few days to their birthdays.
Now, if any lady suddenly begins to chat with me, I'd ask her if her birthday is near. Of course, they find the question embarrassing, but it has helped ward off parasites numerous times.
Thanks for the post.
yea the rate is getting alarming, if we have to give everyone of them something for their birthday, what would be left for us, i still think it is not polite to be demanding for birthday gift and they really need to stop that habit...
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You forgot to mention those who barely talk to you but will DM you their pictures so you can post them and celebrate them... What the hell are they asking you to celebrate? Someone you barely know? What will you even write? 😂
lol, they are clowns, i still don't know how they derive joy in many people posting them though, maybe for show off that they know many people or what
They know their Facebook feed or WhatsApp will be empty because they haven't made any effort to connect with anyone during the year
Plus, they want a situation whereby, they will screenshot and publish on their status as show off 🤦🏿♀️
Aye aye you just said it all lol 😂 well only few do that shit with me 😂 I just do my best by ignoring those messages and I just wish them on their birthday 😂.. the funniest part is them broadcasting you with pictures you didn’t ask for lol and not just 3 but many 😂… Mehn Nigerians are something else lol, let me follow the trend too…
My birthday is in 1 week please start saving for my birthday boss lol
@iskawrites @nkemakonam89 should wait for me
lol you even still post them, the girl i said didn't let me see her status asking for gift birthday is tomorrow, not going to post her either .. she doesn't deserve it
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Hahaha... I am telling.... They often leave a lot of pictures 😂
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You said it all investor. This behavior my friends m I’m close to know I hate. Why would you tell someone it’s your birthday in the first place. Even if you do fine, you have no right to demand for a gift. Like you said a birthday gist is earned. People send their pictures to me to post on their birthdays and when it’s time, I don’t. That love is fake and I won’t help you spread false news
yea very fake, it should be done willingly not by you telling them to post you, people are really funny
Truly disgusting. There are some people who just think about themselves and nothing else. They keep on demanding without having earned anything. I find it funny that they will disappear until the time their birthday is approaching to appear again and do the same selfish thing. For me, I'll just ignore.