It is okay to be different

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It is ok to be different, it makes you special......

Sometimes people think i am very religious and that is why i do not engage in some certain things like smoking, womanizing and gambling but they are wrong, it is not because of religion but simply because of the bad effect of engaging in them...

Many years ago , i went out with my school friends and there was a lot of alcoholic drinks being passed around but i chose none and requested for a yoghurt instead and they were like, jjc you are not a man and one thing about me, i do not care much about how people see me, if you think am jjc, it is fine with me, if you think i am razz, that is your own opinion so even with all their talks, i didn't let it get to me, i can't let them influence me in a bad way.... i didn't take the alcoholic stuff and that is not because i can't take it, it is because i don't want to take it!

Some of my friends back then used to smoke, i was curious as to why they are so addicted to smoking and my curiousity get the best of me that i decided to try it, as i take in the smoke, i started coughing seriously and instantly i know smoke is really unhealthy for the body and that day itself i vowed never to smoke again and yea that was the first time and the last time i did it.... I can't even stay close to those smoking because the odour affect me so yea you can say am allergic to it....

There is a saying that a man must like one of these three things, Drinking, Smoking or Womanizing, Oh well i fall in the third category, i love ladies but i don't womanize and that is because i was able to keep myself in check....

I have had friends that curiousity also get the best of them, they wonder if i like girls because i never ask them out, i can playfully joke with a girl to be mine, but once i see any kind of seriousness, i take a step back because i am not ready to start what i can't finish....

My self control is 95percent, i have had my chances but i never take them because i do not want to tread that path, once you take such step in life, it is always hard to retrace..

One woman is headache, two women is problem and three women is trouble, so the more women surrounding you the more you are sinking into a deep pit and this has been the fall of many men involving themselves with ladies.....

Womanizing is now very common nowadays and even girls do not get so mad at their boyfriends nor do wife take it that serious anymore as long as they are getting their dues, what a fuck up world..

It is one thing i can't do, not because i don't like it, it is because i love my well being more. i love my financial freedom more and won't engage in what will take that from me.....

Just call me Burl.

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You nailed this post especially the last part.
It's only to be different for rrsl , as long as it gives you want you want and happiness then I see no reason why one shouldn't be different.
Nice one champ

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Yes, it definitely okay to be different and be the best version of your self. Its all positive vibes.
Thanks for the write up, love it

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Smoking is really very harmful to our body and slowly it kills us. It's good to hear that you don't smoke and had your first and last smoke in one day. This is a very bad habit and it is very impossible to‌ giveup once this habit is formed

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hopefully those addicted will realize on time they only shorten their life span by smoking

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Quite an interesting one from you sir. It was really inspiring reading through this sir.
Basically for being a little different wouldn't kill though. Our view point of life is very much different so its always okay to be different and keep wining is just the goal. As far as it gets me what I want I am okay within.
Thanks for sharing this with us sir.

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thanks for the positive feed back my man

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That smoking and drinking matter is something that baffles me. I mean, it is clearly detrimental to one's health. It does not need time to tell because it has immediate effects that should be undesirable. But I guess addiction has a way of creeping in and building its roots deep into the mind.

I do not know where you hear that a man has to do one of those three, but I know that it does not in any way apply to me. I do not smoke, drink or womanize, and I would like to stay that way.

Kudos to you for your high self control.

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it is good to meet one of the 1percent of guys that doesn't like any of the three, that is impressive man!

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Your kind is rare and for you to be able to control yourself when it comes to womanizing and the likes, I give you kudos 👏😆
Not all guys will ever think of what you said about having more women which becomes a big trouble. They just want to try it too because others are doing it.

I love your entry 👍

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Not all guys will ever think of what you said about having more women which becomes a big trouble

all guys cant be successful
all guys cant have peace of mind
so yea those who didn't think about the trouble tend to have some set back in their career and life as a whole

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Some people call it peer pressure but I believe anybody who starts smoking and drinking shouldn't blame it on peer pressure, some of us also face that pressure every day but we never succumb to it. Many people do it just to feel among, they want to "belong"

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it is actually peer pressure but those who picked it up are those who had it in their mind already so their friends only speed up the process

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I like this part there are many things we should have done not because we are not capable of doing them or we are outdated but because of the consequences

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The kind of things that people have taken as norm these days... In don't know if its in the spirit of wokeness. But it is reallybtearing down a lot of things that we know.

Thank you for sharing this with us.

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I like your expression especially the last paragraph and your concluding words.

When you are loaded with such quantum of vision, you must ensure that you stay focused to achieve those goals. You shared deeply.
Well appreciated

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Heeeheee. You are a real man. Guys nowadays don't take womanizing as a crime or something bad, but the fact that you know is not good, and not indulging in it makes you a real man.

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Its definitely ok to be you, and the fact that you don't allow anyone or anything influence you shows how mature you are, Well done and keep it up

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