Never ignore the red flags
Civilization ruined relationships...
The rate of divorce in this modernized world is rampant and can not be compared to the days of our forefathers, there was nothing like feminist and they have happy homes...
Nowadays ladies want to be equal with men in every aspect except when it comes to earning money for the family or performing hard task...that is when they remember that is men's job...
Every countries have their own problems regarding relationships, in my part of the country, relationship has become a joke, , the men want sex and the women want money... it has become a transaction.....it is a now a source of income for the ladies and like 70 percent of ladies do not want to date a poor guy.. They want a ready made .. and this has been the more reason why some guys would go to any length to get money...
Due to the way people relate and find themselves together, there has been cases of lot of violence and toxicity in many relationship...
Most of us have been a victim of toxic relationships, it often comes when love leaves the relationship and some other time, it may be a one sided love relationship...
Unhealthy relationship shortens one's life span because it causes so much damage to the heart and that is one organ we need to safe guard well..Be sure to study who you are dating very well and never ignore red flag because that could cost you a lot in the future which you will live to regret forever....
There are so many toxic relationships i know, that i have heard of but there is one that i can never forget because the victim lost alot...
This happen in 2018, there was this man who hit a jackpot online, he was into many things including forex trading and that was where he made his wealth, he was a friendly man that people love but he made one silly mistake in his life...
He chose the wrong woman to date, everyone saw what was going on except him, like it was very transparent, closed friend tried to warn him that this lady was not in love with him but his money but again, love and blindness is something no one can explain....
The lady was living an extravagant lifestyle with the guy's money but he didn't complain nor did he try to stop her, they got married within a year but barely 3 month after their marriage, misfortune befell the man in his work and he lost a lot of money...
He could not satisfy her wants anymore and this lead to constant fight between them, it got to an extent that the man no longer worth anything and the materialistic wife filed for a divorced and left him for good....
It took him months to get over this act of betrayal by someone he loved... he learnt his lesson but the price he paid was too expensive as it cost him almost everything he owned...
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I feel for him o. Some people are just heartless.
It's better for him now that he has left the woman. at least he learn from it
yea good riddance but he might not get back what he lost and the time wasted
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Sometimes we are the architect of our own demise because of who we choose to love. I'm not sure it will be easy to love again for him.
love is one strong desire that is not easy to overcome and we often fall in love with people who we think are better than us or act like they are better than us and hence why many people get heartbroken
Definitely right on that one
Honestly, sometimes I still find it funny when people say love is blind. I still do not agree with the fact that you may have to wait till marriage before your eyes open. For that guy's lady in question, it is necessary to note that partner who didn't know or that you didn't show how you worked hard for what you have and agree to it, will most likely squander the resources.
I seriously hope the guy learns his lesson!
people who tend not to work for money knows how to spend it lavishly lol, like you know someone who knows what it takes for him to earn the money would never squander it.. that is how i see it .. Most girls living extravagant lifestyle are yet to have one job so they dont know the pains that comes with earning
In a way, it's not the fault of the extravagant ladies. Rather, it is that of the men that spend lavishly on them who, to me, aint man enough to see that money keeps nobody!
When a man marries a devil, that is the end. When as a man, you took in a woman who lives an extravagant lifestyle, then goodbye to your wealth. Some people are so blinded in their relationships that they find it hard to listen to advice from those that care and their eyes are opened in the end when things have gone south.
yea, men need to be careful in their choice of wife, finding that right woman that will increase the wealth should be our priority
I wish some women could understand that everything is not all about money and I also wish some men can understand that treating their woman right makes their lives good
But know the more the world move forward the more relationship is becoming some that people find as a common thing which is not supposed to be so
Our forefathers were not like that and I don't know what went wrong in this era that we are and this is just the beginning
I really love this your post , because all you said there was the truth and facts.
God made man the head but woman of nowadays don't want to understand this.
Thank you once again
seriously, if not for kids, i would love to live my life alone peacefully than get married and have a woman reduce my life span with their trouble
Here in Pakistan too, there are many people who take divorce after some time of marriage and this is very wrong and the answer is yes, it is happening a lot. When a woman starts making the same amount of money as a man, the value of the man disappears because she no longer needs him.
most ladies are interested in men's money so when some finally make their own money, you start seeing their true nature
It's a pity that the man went through what he did. And you're right, the society is filled with gold-diggers and promiscuous men who only want money and sex respectively.
But I wouldn't let that deter me from searching for true love. At the end of the day, I think if you want to attract a good person, you have to become that good person, and then pray and learn from your lessons.
It is well.
This was quite an enlightening piece. 🌹
I think if you want to attract a good person, you have to become that good personI love this, Being good also attract good people to us, though the bad ones would also come but we should be able to tell when we see them, even if not immediately, no one can pretend for a life time