Never trust a girl with a secret
I almost skipped this prompt because i just can't recall any event where i had to settle a fight between two or more people, i am not a kind of person that interferes into people's dispute as i know my boundary and also respect people's opinion....
Luckily after cracking my head for hours, i finally remembered an incident that happened in 2016, it was between my ex and a secretary in the school where i was teaching....
You must be wondering how my ex happened to be connected to my work colleagues, oh well she happened to be the daughter of the proprietor and the proprietress of the school so she was my boss daughter...
It was because of this incident that i stopped trusting girls, so what happened was that my ex and the secretary were not on good terms and the secretary was also my friend and she tells me stuff, during her fight with my girlfriend, she told me somethings but her fault was she telling me when my ex was in sight seeing us discuss and you know girls can easily tell when people are discussing about them, they have that natural gift....
It was during our lovers talk she brought up the topic and asked me what the secretary was discussing with me and she made it clear she knew we were discussing about her, i told her she knows the kind of person i am, that i don't do hear and tell and listening to her is a way of being polite but she pleaded with me that i should please tell her what the secretary told me and she even promised that she won't act like she heard it...
I was reluctant to tell her but with the way she was behaving, you will assume no one will ever hear it if i tell her, after she pleaded more and was not ready to let it go, i told her some part and i felt that was the end of it only for the secretary to ask me if i told my ex anything, i knew something has happened and i kinda blamed myself for believing the promise made by that opposite gender...
Well i told the secretary what really happened even though i kind of felt embarrassed that i could be found in such awkward situation, that my little revelation made the matter worst because their fight became more intense but i learnt my lesson...
Never to trust girls with a secret, they don't have the heart to keep one and they are ready to carry trumpet and blow everything out at a little provocation from the owner of the secret...
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you shouldnt have bro no matter how she blackmail you emotionally, since she knew u and secretary were discussing abt her but didnt know d actual content, you will just tell her something else abt her, but as per gf and you are in the tight corner, you dont have a choice. dont trust girls with secret, they r flexible
yea i could not escape that because she was my girlfriend and you know how girls can be when they want to get something from you lol, but i learnt a great lesson that day and no gf or wifee can use such trick on me again....
Well I think this is too generic, I know of girls that don't go about saying things they were told to others. Well in this case, you are the one to be blamed, you should have known what it is you were telling your ex if she would be able to keep it to herself but I guess you did not analyze it very well and you made a mistake of falling for her charms.
you made a mistake of falling for her charms.This is it. and yea i would admit it was my fault for falling for her tricks and actually most girls really can't keep a secret because they are emotional beings..
Yes, most girls but it's not safe to make it sound generic because you will be wrong.
I'm sure now you have learned to be more careful with whom you tell some things whether or not they are close.
but it is generic! 96 percent of girls really cant keep a secret.....and right from time i don't rat out on people, she only used the love between us as an advantage and even with that i was careful not to tell her everything but i did mention some part of the discussion...i have been hundred percent more care ful after that
Well as long as it's not 100% it's not generic but I will let you have your way, I hope one day you see a girl that proves you wrong, I know you will, hehehe.
That's nice, I'm very sure you did learn.
hmmm such girl is yet to be born... yea i did learn well HOPE STYLIST
Maybe... that's nice.
Lol 🤣🤣🤣 this is just crazy lolz,you were dating your proprietress daughter, lolz you get mind oh and don't mind girls, they have gift's but They utilize it the wrong way...
There are very open mouthed people expecially when they fight with the person involved they will surely spill the beans.
It's better to lie to them than to tell them the truth because it will lead to more bitterness in them...
Investor the bad guy, dating your boss hmmmmm I didn't see this coming ❤️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
burl and big things lol
yea they are too emotional and can't keep secret like guys do
Burl and big things 😛🤣😂🤣
He he... It was a long time ago when I learned the value of keeping things to my chest. I only divulged what I chose to and that has helped me immensely. I totally understand your decision.
Thank you for sharing this with us.
You go Dey trust girls😂😂😂
i fucked up, i know right😂
You did big time😂😂
Lol! Is this a joke?
Okay this generalization is making me uneasy. Sorry to say you first leaked the secret then your ex girlfriend followed suit. In reality it's you who shouldn't be trusted with a secret because "you don't have the heart to keep one". Don't you think?
I know it is naturally believed that girls are manipulative and can't be trusted and all but you know this doesn't apply to all girls. There are still very honest and trustworthy girls all over the globe and you haven't met half of us yet.
This generalization out of a one time experience with one girl, or just maybe you've had other experiences isn't reason enough to tag all of us as not being trustworthy.
On behalf of the trustworthy girls association, we say that we are upset😕 Do well to appease the gods.
I am sorry about your experience though. I know you were in a tight spot because it's naturally hard to say no to someone you're emotionally engaged with. I can imagine what could have happened if you didn't tell her. It could have probably caused issues with your girlfriend.
Well, now you learnt not to trust girls with any secret and my heart is broken 🥲. I believe if you ever find yourself in such a position again, you'll know what to do.
Thank you for sharing your experience. I still learnt something.
Sorry to say you first leaked the secret then your ex girlfriend followed suit.you get it wrong, when she told me, it was not a secret because she didn't ask me not to tell, i just know it was the right thing to do, but when i told my girl, i even made her promise me i won't hear it from anyone, it becomes a secret at that moment...
On behalf of the trustworthy girls association, we say that we are upset😕 Do well to appease the gods.LOL
And again you can't blame me for telling her as you said up there, girls are manipulative and for the fact that we are together, if i don't tell her, you know what it can cause.... so i do not think i am at fault but i learnt a lesson and also no matter what, even if it is going to lead to break up, i would never tell a girl what she is not supposed to hear or can later cause trouble if others hear it..
Also the moment two or more people statement correlate then there is some truth in it and i have read stories about how girls do fuck up when it comes to secrecy.. so it is a very common thing and that is why generalizing it was not hard for me to do......
Oh, I'm sorry I got that wrong. I thought she asked you not to tell anyone that's why you really begged your girl not to say a word about it.
Generalizing it wasn't hard for you to do, I get that but it doesn't justify what you said as the right thing to say, that is my point.
I made it clear I understood where you were coming from but again it doesn't make what you said right because it doesn't apply to all girls.
I think I have read another comment of someone else pointing that out to you. It's not a very nice thing to do. Appease the gods, you have no excuse! 😁
I understand your point quite well. But still doesn't mean we have to generalize, there are girls that has a big hear and can keep our secret more safe than fellow guys