No man can love a girl as much as her father
The bond between fathers and their baby girl is powerful and often much stronger than the affection between them and their sons. this does not mean they don't love their sons, it is just the emotional level that is different, they believe that their daughters are fragile and need to be protected and showered love to keep them safe.
I am not a father but I have stayed with my sisters, one had two boys and the other had two girls, the time I spent living with them made me realize some things about both genders.
Girls are brought up to show love, they don't hold back the way they feel, whenever I go out, the return is always epic because my nieces were always waiting to run and hug me on my return, that gesture alone made me want to have a daughter as my firstborn.
Boys were not raised that way, they were raised to be manly and this is why in most families, the father and daughter bond is always strong and mother to son is always strong too.
Back to the prompt of Hive Ghana, Fathers do not like their girl's boyfriend at first or don't even want them to have one at a certain age because it threatens the love and attention they get from their daughter.
Once she has a lover, if she shows 95% of love to her dad, it would drastically be reduced to 20% especially when she is deeply in love with the boy.
Another reason is Trust
Fathers do not believe their boyfriend can ever love their daughter the way they loved her, they don't trust them and they won't like to see the girl they have been pampering and taking good care of be maltreated by someone else, so they might not like the boyfriend until he earns their trust and shows them he is also capable of giving their princess a queen treatment.
Most fathers do not care if their daughters divorce and come back home to start living with them, they would rather she stay with them than let her face any hardship somewhere else.
Their love is not about possession though, the moment they notice their daughter is more happy with the guy and she is being treated well, that is when they start to like the boy too because they realize he is capable of making their daughter happy and trust me, that is what most loving father wants from their daughter's boyfriend.
Shout out to all the loving fathers, no man can ever love your daughter as much as you do.
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You are very correct. If you try loving a girl like the way her father did, I am sorry, you might end up loosing her. The connection between a father and her daughter can't be compared to anything at all
You are right man
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It is true that we have seen it with our own eyes in the world that a father who loves his daughter very much and would do anything for her but still loves her daughter. A new person has to give and that is the world and it is also a fact that that person can never care for this girl as much as her parents used to care for her.
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No one, parents love for their kids is the strongest
Yeah you are right.
The love between a father and his daughter is just out of this world.
Meanwhile, I don't agree that a girl's love for her father goes a little low when a guy is in the picture. You know, she loves them differently. The one with the boyfriend is a romantic kind. The two relationships just happen in different forms.
Fathers and brothers are just very protective of the females in their lives. They just want to be sure that their girl is in safe hands.
If the love doesn’t reduce, the attention will reduce, she may not even remember to call her dad anymore once she start staying with the guy or they are always together. The love for the father is there but the attention will decreaseeeeeeeee
The role of a daughter's father is not easy to replace. In fact it's not replaceable. May be for a little time because of emotion daughter can't understand the love of their father but father do it for thinking good for them.
Yea the daughter may not understand the moment they have a lover, but the dad still want the best for them
The caption got my attention, I really love the way you clearly explain it, yes your point are valid, fathers don't take their girls for granted and can't stand it when they start loving someone else, they will try as much as possible to protect them from danger
Thanks Etoro.
Exactly
I mean if you were a dad would you even believe that a random guy loves your daughter more than you do?😂😂
I don’t think so
It’s really a valid reason why dads don’t trust their daughter’s boyfriend.
No way!
And the fact that a random guy is now digging my daughter is a story for another day lol
I am sure you have seen too many bollywood movies with the same topic where Fathers make it hard for the boy to get in a relationship with their daughter and you wonderfully explained the same thing in your post wowow it is so true
yea right, that Bollywood own is more extreme lol
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This is making me think about how much my father loves me. There is nothing that man has not done for me. I’m grateful for the kind of father I have
father’s love for their daughter is one of a kind
That is correct dear. Girls are brought up in a way that makes them love and if you don't guide it men can take it for granted.
Thanks for sharing
The love fathers have for their daughters is indeed special. That love will never change. Indeed when the daughter finds a partner the attention changes but not the love. That is natural and expected.