The price you have to pay for Happiness

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I used to be very hot tempered few years ago and when i look back at the past it only makes me smile because i am now different and even though i still get angry once in a while i have learn to control myself from exploding or cause any scene with people around me...

Just like i was curious for some time, you will be curious why i changed from being hot tempered to a very cool guy now, it is simple... The quote a hungry man is an angry man defines my situation, i was always hungry back then and i guess that is what turns on my temperamental nature as little thing piss me off and i am always ready to pass the aggression towards anyone that provokes me...

The first thing i needed for my inner peace is food, it is when i eat and appease those demon inside me i will be able to attain that peace within and also be able to bear what people passed at me no matter how rude or bad it may be, so i make sure to eat good food at the right time...

The people you also associate yourself with are capable of stirring your mood, some will make you happy, some will make you feel sad, some will make you feel guilty and the list goes on, i have been able to get this in control as i don't have to deal with many people like i used to in the past..

Unlike the past when i had to go to work and can't avoid attending to people no matter how annoying i find them, this has changed since i now work from home, i choose who i want to talk or associate with and if i don't like your vibes, i avoid you completely.....

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How do i achieve happiness

Little things really matters and a small act of kindness can means a lot to the person you helped, it always make me happy to put smile on others face so i try to help people around me in anyway i can...

Happiness does not cost a dime, being alone and listening to music has been my way to keep myself sane and happy, it also gives me the ample time needed to dream about the kind of lifestyle i want to live...

Chatting online is one of my favorite hobby, i can chat all day without getting tired, it cost me nothing but to type and i can easily express my mind without uttering a word..

I love doing this better than talking to people because being around lot of people drains me of my energy, but my time of being alone makes my energy bar 100 percent! life of an introvert🙂...

This is my first time posting in the minimalist community, hope i didn't violate any of the rules?😊

I would love to invite @zara09 and @b0s to participate in this prompt..

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Hello @burlarj
I can relate to what you speak of.
I'm a lot calmer myself and I try not to let other people's energy and mood affect me. The thing is that I have to encounter fewer people and I'm in a stage where I have the ability to choose just who and when I want t share my time or be around people.

It sounds like you are very in tune with your inner self, which is awesome.

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thanks milly😇 and it is good to know you can relate with it

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Were you really a violent person?
If they had told me, I wouldn't believe that.
Thank you you the referral.

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Hi @burlarj,

Little things really matters and a small act of kindness can means a lot to the person you helped, it always make me happy to put smile on others face so i try to help people around me in anyway i can.

100% agree!

I love that you got that change in you!

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