What kills a man
Being a man is not easy, you are expected to be perfect when it comes to taking care of responsibilities...
A man will work hard for a whole month only to use the money to cater for the needs of his family, the parent want their share, wife want her share, siblings want their share and even cousins, nephew and nieces want their own share, by the time he gives all some of what they ask for even if not all, he is only left with like 5 percent of his salary...........
It is mostly recorded that husband die first before the wife, why won't this be rampant if all what the man does everyday is to work hard, toil the soil to provide for his family, it does not end there, he is also expected to protect the family from any sort of danger.....
I have watch films and read stories about how a man run away from his wife and children, it sounds funny and bad but i really won't blame the man, it is not easy at all and when it get to a stage a man is not able to provide the needs of his family, he become useless and uncomfortable, he may feel miserable if he is unfortunate to have married a nagging wife, one without empathy....
Do you know that when you die today, those people that keep saying you are the only one they have, without you they can't do this, they can't do that, would definitely look for another means to survive? it is because you are around that makes them put all their responsibilities on you...
As a man, responsibilities automatically becomes yours to bear but always remember, you also have a life to live, never let any one be too dependent on you because it will affect you mentally especially when the heavy load on you is getting too much.....
Your wife and children responsibilities is 100 percent yours to solve but you see the likes of extended family, do your best and leave the rest, problems does not finish... Refrain from taking responsibilities that will make you feel down...
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It is not easy to be a man and I wonder how man is spelt with a "R" which would stand for responsibility.
I have also read about men abandoning their home just because their responsibilities were getting out of hand.
As a man, I believe that having multiple streams of income can help us and we need to iron out our responsibilities properly so avoid wasting of resources.
yea multiple source of income is indeed helpful but many people are not lucky with one stable income talkless of multiple...
Man are always trying, and that's why I respect any man in the family, sometimes I wonder how they cope with all the billing.
If I were to be a man, no extended family issue can kill me, I'll do what I can do and leave the rest.. hehe.
This what majority belief, but that doesn't mean everything should be on them, they are human, they get tired too, and it's important to get a hardworking woman too, at least she will also help to settle some bills at home.
if only most of your fellow gender think this way, the responsibility on men will reduce a bit
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I feel this. I'm doing all of this for my family to live well. Not for me. It's weird. When a man loves he provides.
yes, a man who loves his family will definitely think of their today and future, it is a source of motivation for him to do better and earn more to keep them happy and secured
Just as a singer said
Problem no dey finish......................You gat to enjoy
And seriously, something must kill a man. We are always bound with responsibilities that we forget that it's 6 feet at last. Just do you best and leave the rest is the riddle of the wise even if it doesn't sound like one. Fine, we shouldn't shy away from our responsibilities but we should also think of doing things that would make use live longer than doing things that would cut our lives short all in the name of "I MUST PLEASE THEM ALL". Every road has a bend and every beginning has a end, so let's travel on the same road gently until we gt to the last destination in peace. #Nopressure
yea we were not born to please anyone, i love how you put it, do OUR BEST not push ourself to the limit to satisfy them