How To Forgive and To Forget Those Who Sinned Us?
Have a wonderful Friday everyone. It's weekend and happy to be with my kids for two this with me.
Well, talking about how to forgive and to forget, it is just a simple procedure for us to do if we have no hatred in our heart. The message of Bro. Eli thought us how and why we should learn to forgive and to forget.
Base in my real life, I was a good friend to my co-worker and I was thinking that he is a true friend. I never seen any sign of betrayal he planned for me. I was mistaken for the trust I gave. He even borrowed money to me. I gave because I knew I have the better living compared to them and he have kids too. But because of money he betrayed me and that unforgettable moment I could not forget how it devastated my whole life until now. That person causes me a lot of pain. I was in the cage but I was not selling any drugs, and I was not aware that he was and is a pusher/seller until now but living freely and continue his work until now.
If I am a demonic person who never know how to forgive and forget, if my hot tempered feelings I use it to act my vengeance, I can do it but killing him is not an option. Vengeance is not mine and I don't want to go again in that cage of misfortune and hell on earth.
The devastation caused by my friend sometimes bothered me but I asked the guidance from Jesus Christ to hold me tight and guide me for the best not only for my ego but for the future of my children. We must think twice before we do a certain things to avoid regret in the end. What he did caused damaged my entire life, loosing my wife, my job,my dignity but I forgave him and let God enlighten his mind not to obsess money to collaborate with the officers who are greedy wanted just for a promotion.The officers who hitted me with steel bar, I knew him but I preferred to forget and forgive them to avoid another damage not only to my own life but for the life of my two angels.
The experienced I have is not easy and so hard to accept but when you let God get inside our heart, forgiving and to forget is just easy to do. With prayers, it soften our heart and gain peaceful mindset for the better days coming.
That's all I can say based on my real life story. I made myself stronger than to act for a vengeance that may only cause another damage. I am now in the process of moving on forward , accepting the unacceptable matter in life. I believe and trust the guidance of God. I forgave them because God forgave me too.
Thank you @hiveph @mcgi.care and @asean.hive community for your support to a person like who almost lost my trust to myself.
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This is me,
@cdaveboyles23, a father of two beautiful daughters, living in Panabo City of North Davao,Philippines