网络和现实中的女总裁|female presidents in the online world and in real life

海洋球~

太陡峭了~
just too steep~


狗主人是个美女，我说想给她的狗拍个照片，她就转过脸去让我拍照，等她转过头来的时候，还对我甜甜一笑~
the dog owner is a beauty~

发现和昨天的牛蛙不是同样的~
find it is different~

睡前刷到一个比较有意思的视频，视频中的女主持请来了一个女嘉宾，是一个非常能干的女总裁，23岁就做大区经理了，在北京的销售可以达到全国的70%，哇塞，太牛了！她说自己非常年轻就遇到了职场瓶颈，哈哈，这句话总感觉有些“凡尔赛”，这泼天的富贵，什么时候轮到我们啊？26岁就负责拜耳全国的培训，带团队冲业绩的事情已经不太感兴趣了。做销售的时候，最高一年能够拿到一两百万的奖金。28岁开始自己创业，但是不太喜欢别人喊她“总”，会觉得这个称呼太老了。

她说自己每天只睡五六个小时，后来发现其他的老板每天只睡四个小时，每天睡到自然醒的我没有当上女总裁是很正常的事情，哈哈哈。于是女主持给这个女总裁看了一个视频，这个视频里展示的是网络中的女总裁的精致生活，比如每天早上起来给自己煎烤肉，卷头发，保养皮肤，健身，保养车，买了个飞机，下午一点到公司视察和闺蜜去买包包，吃下午茶，晚上和闺蜜一起去找年轻的弟弟按脚等等，其实没等她们两个讨论，我都开始怀疑这个网络里的女总裁应该不是在自己搞事业，而是被包养了。

果然现实中的女总裁说自己每天六点半就起床了，需要看新闻，看日程表，见什么人，给助理安排事项，吃饭都是囫囵吞枣的，根本没有时间好好吃早餐。我很认同她说的这句话，任何人都有享受生活的一天，但享受生活如果是个日常，那肯定是不会有钱的。我在现实生活中见过的老板们，通常也都是比较忙碌的，为各种事情奔波，很少能够看到像网络中的女总裁那样的。现实中的女总裁也说了钟睒睒（曾是首富），以为不缺钱的老同事，也是从早上九点工作到下午六点的，我觉得这个说法是比较和现实贴近的。

再就是女总裁和年轻弟弟的故事了，现实中的女总裁认为如果和老公吵架了，和年轻的弟弟聊聊天，养养眼养养心还行，但不存在爱情，女主持不服气的问她，网络中的那个弟弟就不能爱上40岁的女总裁吗？女总裁一针见血的说，那就不要给弟弟转66666元啊，她说自己不相信收了她红包的人有真爱。现在网络上很流行，比如女明星每个月给弟弟10万的生活费当她男朋友之类的，如果换成是女生，估计得说这个女生是捞女，被包养之类的了，换成男生，是姐弟恋，还成了甜甜的恋爱了。

这里说个题外话，现在很多人不谈恋爱不结婚，可能和他们看多了这些视频有关，被不现实的视频洗脑了，以为生活必须全部都是美好，那才叫生活，似乎自己的生活就不值得过了一样。以后还是多看看真人秀，而不是那些摆拍出来的东西，对真实生活多一些了解可能更好。当然听这个女总裁的意思，如果不是她结婚早，她可能不会结婚，哈哈哈，看来太现实也会导致结婚率低。她很自豪地说，她儿子不需要傍富婆，她儿子傍她就行了，讲得挺有意思的，女强人不需要男人，她们有儿子就行了~

English version:
Before going to bed, I came across an interesting video. In the video, the female host invited a female guest, who was an incredibly capable female CEO. She became a regional manager at 23 and achieved 70% of the national sales in Beijing—wow, that's impressive! She said that she encountered a career bottleneck at a very young age. Haha, that phrase always sounds a bit "Versailles" to me—such immense wealth, when will that be our turn? By 26, she was responsible for Bayer's national training, and she was no longer interested in leading teams to hit sales targets. When she was in sales, she could earn a bonus of one to two million in a single year. At 28, she started her own business, but she didn't like being called "CEO" because she felt the title made her sound too old.

She mentioned that she only sleeps five or six hours a night. Later, she found out that other CEOs sleep only four hours a day. As someone who sleeps in until I naturally wake up, it’s no wonder I haven’t become a female CEO, haha. The female host then showed this female CEO a video, which featured a portrayal of a "network" female CEO living a glamorous life. For instance, she wakes up every morning to fry meat for herself, curl her hair, do skincare, work out, take care of her car, bought a private jet, then goes to the office around 1 PM for inspections, goes shopping with her friends for bags, enjoys afternoon tea, and in the evening, hangs out with younger men to get foot massages, and so on. Honestly, even before they started discussing, I was already suspicious that this network female CEO wasn’t really focusing on her career but was probably being kept by someone.

Sure enough, the real-life female CEO said that she wakes up at 6:30 AM every day. She needs to check the news, look at her schedule, meet people, and arrange tasks for her assistant. Her meals are often rushed, and she hardly has time to sit down for a proper breakfast. I totally agree with her when she said, "Anyone can enjoy life one day, but if enjoying life becomes a routine, then you definitely won’t have money." In my own experience, the bosses I’ve seen are usually very busy, constantly running around for various things, and it’s rare to see a female CEO like the one portrayed online. The real-life CEO also mentioned Zhong Shanshan (once China’s richest person), saying that even though he didn’t lack money, he worked from 9 AM to 6 PM every day, which I think is much closer to reality.

Then, there’s the story about the young men and the female CEOs. The real-life CEO believes that if she argues with her husband, talking to a younger man to lift her spirits is fine, but she doesn’t see it as love. The host was unconvinced and asked her, “Can’t a younger man fall in love with a 40-year-old female CEO?” The CEO sharply replied, “Well, then don’t transfer him 66,666 yuan!” She said she didn’t believe anyone who accepted her red envelope truly loved her. Nowadays, it’s quite common on the internet to see female celebrities giving their younger boyfriends a monthly allowance of 100,000 yuan, but if it were a woman doing this, people would probably say she was a "sugar mommy" or being "kept." If it were a man, it would be called a "sweet" relationship between an older woman and a younger man.

By the way, many people today are not getting into relationships or getting married, and I think it might be related to the unrealistic videos they’ve watched. They’ve been brainwashed by these perfect videos, thinking that life must always be flawless to be considered a good life, and as a result, they may feel their own lives aren’t worth living. In the future, it might be better to watch more reality shows instead of those staged ones, so we can have a better understanding of real life. Of course, from the female CEO’s perspective, if she hadn’t married early, she probably wouldn’t have married at all, haha. It seems that being too realistic might also be a reason for the low marriage rate. She proudly said that her son doesn’t need to rely on a rich woman; he can rely on her instead. It was quite funny—this powerful woman doesn’t need a man; she just needs her son!

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