Playing hard to get
This is not a maze game, and we are not doing hide and seek, neither are we on wild hunt nor mine craft. Why would you play too "hard to get" when you know that he's your spec and you feel the same way he feels about you? Many ladies have lost their future man, because of this "mantra". Nkechi was my sister's best friend. She's classy, cute and very pretty, and I think that's why she's always sassy, maybe. I for one don't know how to engage in an epistle of Paul just to profess my love. We shouldn't drag matters like we are in the court of law. Nigerians are known for that. When you ask a girl out, you would have to answer bunch of questions like
What is love?
Why do you love me
Do you have a girlfriend
What is my favorite colour
What is my best food
Which church do you attend
Are you a Muslim or a Christmas
Who is the mother of Jesus.
Who killed Jesus
Seriously, you would prefer to be on the hot seat of "who wants to be a millionaire". And if you fail the first two questions, you walk away with nothing, because you've exhausted your love line. But you know, there are some guys that can't explain love verbally, probably because they are not good with words, but they can shower you with it in a real sense of it, I mean in a concrete way
That year, when we were in school, we consulted the dictionary before we approached a girl. That's the only way to their heart. When she asks what do you understand by love? Just give a dictionary definition, and wrap it round Romeo, and Juliet, and titanic, and probably speak 2 grammar she doesn't understand. Bam! You are there. You've captured her heart. But she comes back after two weeks, heart broken. What a life
It happened a lot in my days. Sometimes, I wonder why many ladies are like that. Or should I say why most guys are players (Messi and Ronaldo) very good at dribbling and scoring goals. May God have mercy
Last week, my sister came around, and we discussed her friend Nkechi. She's still single. I wasn't surprised. She would never allow a guy to say a word before walking away. She's proud and pompous, but very nice and comely anyways. I decided to chat her up on WhatsApp and her response shocked me. I typed
"Hello, how are you doing Nkechi? It's been a while",
And the reply was boldly written using a WhatsApp markdown
YES, I DO
As if we were on the altar. What did you do, I asked? That was when she realized she had typed something else. Oh sorry ckole, that was an error. Of course, I understood the short drama. I didn't allow it to come and pass. I engaged her in a strong conversation and she opened up
I was played a lot by guys as a teenager. They would tell me sweet words and I would fall for it, only to realize after a while that it's all lies. That's why at a point in my life I decided to play hard to get on guys. Now, I'm desperate to settle with just one person that would love me sincerely, and it's difficult
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I felt pity for her. I like her so much, but there's no way I can help her. I would only add to her problems if I show an interest. I'm already taken. The only thing I'm waiting for is for one of my three angels to profess their love, so we can get married. Oh! You don't get it. Okay you can go through the post I made some days ago. See the link https://peakd.com/hive-164166/@ckole/my-three-angels. You would understand my reasons. I had to wish her good luck, while I wait till one of my angels propose to me. What a lucky guy I am. I'm sure I won't wait in vain
Breaking someone's heart is traumatic. Let's be true to our love with others, and treat them the way we want others to treat us.
This is ckole the laughing gas.
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😂😂 Yes I do
You can't blame her. Being pretty is not easy itself. There are cons too.
One can't tell what she's been through
Absolutely sir. She went through a lot. Those that has been heart broken multiple times would understand. But sha, her shakara too much 😂
Hahaha. I wouldn't blame Nkechi for her past though but she could have not played too hard to get and now, she wants to settle down at all cost. Wtf? She needs to be patient oo because marriage is not something one should settle down with just anyone so she doesn't regret and keep enduring.
You mean, there are 3 angels on queue just because of you? I need to see the post sef 😀
Yes, she knows that. But you know sometimes, when one get tired of searching, they settle for anything. However, it's better to tarry and make the right choice than rush into hell. So, how far? Have you seen my three angels 😜
I have seen them oo even though I don't know if it is the same Nkechi you talked about here. Lol
Nkechi is not part of them. Her own case dey different.
Okay na.
I remember how I will be reading lines and also watching love videos just to be more romantic and have words to tell a lady when I eventually stop one. That moment when she ask you a question that bridge your arrangements from what you've packaged to tell her omohh... Las las she will have to walk away because na rubbish go just de commot for mouth oo
Better rubbish my brother. Some of them are very intelligent, and I appreciate that. It's our (guys) ways that made them who they are. I don't blame them at all.