Dreemport Challenge Final Week: KILL THEM WITH YOUR KINDNESS

Hello, Guys!👋

In our life we encounter person or people that lead or leave an impact on our lives, not from our family circle but from the outside we may not even know them or see them or not even know their names but their beliefs motivate us and serve as our inspiration, and this is the topic of the collaboration of Ma'am @dreemsteem of @dreemport and Ma'am @beeber of @memorialforest community this week.

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"KILL THEM WITH YOUR KINDNESS"

Even when I was a kid my mom always taught me to be kind all the time. And I believe that and follow her advice. And according to my mom, My late grandfather (her father) also taught them to keep calm in facing challenges and people who are having disrespectful and harsh behavior, and smile at them, awkward right? But believe me, it's easy to do when you do it from the heart and let kindness drive you, and believe that God is just there watching over you.

And the first time I heard this interesting line "Kill them with your kindness" from my Mom it took my attention. How is it possible to kill anyone with kindness? 😁 but it's great and very effective to have peace of mind. So many times I heard the lines from her and I learned that she also learned that from her friend @naviii, Founder of Crypto Stalkers, Head of Community Swirge Network, and Binance Feed Content Creator, which He also learned from an influencer Elena Demou, a long time ago. He posted it there on ReadCash.

https://read.cash/@Naveed.Ahmed/i-miss-me-b7483c17

To know more about @naviii you can check it here

https://peakd.com/hive-170798/@aimharryianne/a-jolly-and-lazy-guardian-angel-surprised-me

..the impact of the words on me is great even though I don't know the author of that words.

I always see life as positive as it can be. I look into the world the way I want to see it. I thought everyone think the same as me. I thought life in the real world and in the online world is different. But then I realized it is just the same or worst. Because I can't see the movement of their eyes or their body language. I am not a perfect person I committed my Mistakes, but the biggest mistake that I have done is to believe that all people have a heart for humanity.

Now I know why Mama @aimharryianne chose to isolate herself away from everyone and live peacefully after he got sick and surrender her life to God. I told her "Mama keep fighting, ignore the negative world, do what is Godly and what is good ignore negative people". But I now realize it is hard to live in a place unknown to you.

When I experience bullying from my teacher in school, I was traumatized, just to hear my teacher's name I felt like I was inside the freezer and so nervous. I was so afraid. Being a very active and competitive student, I became fearful and timid that I wanted to stop my studies or transfer to another school. But I am thankful, I have a brave Mama. A Mama who knows how to respect even the worst person. I didn't know what she did that she made the Principal of the School, and the Department head feel sorry even the Teacher who bullied me became apologetic in her presence. Parents and the school organization are thankful to Mama because she teaches that teacher a lesson who already bullied many students.

It has been days before I recovered from that trauma. And here in Hive I also experienced getting muted and it's ok but being humiliated is a different thing. I experienced being mocked and humiliated for using "Po" a Filipino language, we use in our conversation with other people especially elders to show our highest respect to them. But not everyone has respect for other people's cultures, beliefs, and dialects.

I got traumatized, Maybe I have a mistake and I know I followed the rules, but I don't know exactly the details of why I am being muted that was why I asked him with high respect. But what I got was humiliation and being called an "Idiot" by a community owner here because of this post

https://peakd.com/hive-168869/@czander/dreemport-challenge-2-dreemer-of-the-year-share-your-love

I got so discouraged I lost interest to come back here but Mama told me "Be kind and be humble but never allowed anybody to push you down below the belt, face it with courage, truth should come out, and learn a lesson from it, anybody might experience the same thing, the abuse that sometimes causes of suicide to people in the cyber world. And I talk to my mom's friend @naviii whom we heard first about that "Kill them with your kindness" and he also gave me the same advice that I should learn that each person has a different way of thinking, learn to respect and learn a lesson from everything, choose peace in every situation and give respect to those who deserve but it doesn't mean to disrespect others by harassing them. Better to avoid and be kind always. Let them get crazy and be killed by your kindness who knows in that way you can change their life for the better without you knowing it.

Life is continuous learning. A true leader is best to serve by example. Sometimes words are only words, we should put them into action, it's good to be right but it's more right to be kind.

We should learn to respect everyone, if we are not in favor of the opinion of others, we can still say our side but humbly and nicely po. We don't know what each of us is going through, so be kind and humble all the time.

Most especially, we are in public places, like here in Hive, let us try to learn to leave our bad behaviors behind and be good all the time. They said "BE YOU", Yes it's true but it doesn't mean we are free to humiliate others with our harsh words because we are naturally harsh. Learn to adjust because here in Hive we are all part of it Newbie or Oldbie. We are under one roof, under one sky, under one God.😇 We are not raised by our parents to be humiliated by anybody especially if we don't do anything bad. NOT ALL MISTAKES ARE BAD. What is bad is to hurt others by our intentionally hurting words and actions.

This is not a pass to anybody to humiliate another person for his/her mistake. Discipline is far more different from humiliating people.

Let us make Hive a better place, Whatever belief we have, we can say it in nice words.

One thing that I got from Mama @aimharryianne in this is to learn to forgive easily, and not hold any grudge against other people no matter how they wronged us like what she said in this post

https://peakd.com/hive-182074/@aimharryianne/the-greatest-love-of-all

And most of all if God can forgive us so who are we to be hard on giving it? Forgive and forget. Be nice to others never copy their bad behaviors, but never let anyone push you down, protect your dignity and always be humble but firm. And I know good people still exist.

So the wonderful lines "KILL THEM WITH YOUR KINDNESS" of ELENA DEMOU have had a great impact on me, I always applied this in everything I do, and whoever she was in person and popularized that surely she is a way of God to share His loving kindness..and kindness can kill all bad things. I am grateful to that person for that Superlines of words, that because of her @naviii learned it and shared it with my Mom and passed it to me..and impacted my life 😁.

We have only one life, it's better to use acts of kindness both in words and in action. Let peace radiates in our Life, so we all have peace and let God enter our heart 😁, through Jesus Christ our Lord.

NOTE:I want to take this chance to all of you asking what "PO" is. 🤣 Mama @aimharryianne raised me with good manners and right conduct, with good values and education. As Filipinos, we use that word as our respectful response to show respect to others most especially to elders. But in this post, I didn't use the "PO" to show my respect for the rules of this community not to use multi-language. But I am pointing it out here, and I know God sees my heart and mind and that is what matters to me because living God's words is best and there is also the Bible verse to follow and respect the leaders in our land and here I didn't use "PO" to follow God's command and to show respect is also to follow the rules. 🙏🤣😁

Thank you!
God bless us all!
Bye!👋