#108 Navidad con mis fantasmas! / Christmas with my ghosts!

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La navidad es para muchos la época más bonita del año por todas las reuniones, festividades, decoraciones. Además que siempre es un tiempo de amor, reconciliación, amor y de paz.
Todo el mundo se encuentra eufórico por estos meses de navidad y resulta que la verdad es otra cuando llega enero y todas o la mayoría de esas personas que estaban contigo en diciembre ya no lo están en enero cuando la realidad es otra.
Yo soy medio Scrooge porque de verdad de hace un par de años estos últimos meses del año me valen madre… Son días normales como cualquier otro.
Entonces ahí vienen mis fantasmas que en este momento a dejar sus diferentes mensajes a ver si calientan mi frio corazón como dice el post de damas de colmena.

Llamare a estos 3 fantasmas de la siguiente manera:

  • El fantasma niño,
  • El fantasma interno,
  • El fantasma de mi ser.

Christmas is for many the most beautiful time of the year because of all the gatherings, festivities, decorations. Besides it is always a time of love, reconciliation, love and peace.
Everyone is euphoric for these Christmas months and it turns out that the truth is different when January arrives and all or most of those people who were with you in December are no longer with you in January when the reality is different.
I am half Scrooge because for the last couple of years these last months of the year have been really worthless to me... They are normal days like any other.
So here come my ghosts that at this time to leave their different messages to see if they warm my cold heart as the post of beehive ladies says.
I will call these 3 ghosts as follows:

  • The child ghost,
  • The inner ghost,
  • The ghost of my being.

El fantasma niño es ese que siempre quiere ver todo lo bonito donde no lo hay, que siempre quiere estar brincando, sonriendo, disfrutando de las festividades sin parar, gastándose todo aguinaldo y dinero que caiga en la cuenta y aun así no pensar en el mañana que en este caso sería enero. Ese fantasma que disfruta de todas las reuniones, haciéndose de la vista gorda, sin importar el que dirán de mí.. siempre actuando sin dañar a nadie y dejando un mensaje de que hay que vivir la vida feliz…

Dice vive un día a la vez porque no sabes si habrá un mañana.

The child ghost is the one who always wants to see everything beautiful where there is none, who always wants to be jumping, smiling, enjoying the festivities non-stop, spending all the Christmas bonuses and money that falls into the account and still not thinking about tomorrow, which in this case would be January. That ghost who enjoys all the gatherings, turning a blind eye, not caring what anyone will say about me... always acting without harming anyone and leaving a message to live a happy life....

He says live one day at a time because you don't know if there will be a tomorrow.

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El fantasma interno es es el que lleva todos los demonios, sentimientos encontrados, tristezas, con el que muchas personas luchamos, el que disimulamos para que nadie se dé cuenta de cómo nos sentimos. Ese que nos permite reflexionar en momentos de compartir y de revivir bonitas experiencias. Este nos deja un mensaje de que debemos evaluar aquello que nos molesta en otros para mejorarlo en nosotros mismos. En que debemos darnos una nueva oportunidad de vivir esta época de navidad con villancicos y alegría como lo hacíamos años atrás, aunque falten seres queridos, aunque la familia este regada por el mundo.
Debemos llenarnos de fuerza y fortaleza para continuar. Y no empañar las navidades de otros.

The inner ghost is the one that carries all the demons, mixed feelings, sadness, with which many people struggle, the one we hide so that no one realizes how we feel. The one that allows us to reflect in moments of sharing and reliving beautiful experiences. This one leaves us with the message that we must evaluate what bothers us in others in order to improve it in ourselves. In that we must give ourselves a new opportunity to live this Christmas season with carols and joy as we did years ago, even if loved ones are missing, even if the family is scattered around the world.
We must fill ourselves with strength and fortitude to continue. And not tarnish the Christmas of others

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Este último fantasma, el de mi ser… El de la mujer que soy, solo tiene una mezcla de todos los demás fantasmas, vivo en cámara lenta, siendo calma o siendo tormenta pero VIVO… Si hoy hay que cantar y bailar gaitas lo hacemos, si hay que salir de compras rápidas, lo hacemos, si hay que hacer un intercambio de regalo yo lo organizo, lo disfruto y sigo el camino.
Tratando de dar el ejemplo, de sembrar lo que quiero que las demás personas cultiven en sus hijos o en la nueva generación que viene en camino para que no arrastren esos sentimientos negativos y oscuros que muchas veces levamos…

Dejar el mundo un poco mejor de cómo lo encontré!

This last ghost, that of my being... That of the woman that I am, only has a mixture of all the other ghosts, I live in slow motion, being calm or being stormy but ALIVE... If today we have to sing and dance bagpipes we do it, if we have to go shopping fast, we do it, if we have to do a gift exchange I organize it, I enjoy it and I follow the path.
Trying to set an example, to sow what I want other people to cultivate in their children or in the new generation that is on the way so that they do not drag those negative and dark feelings that many times we carry ...

Leaving the world a little better than how I found it.

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Mis fotos son tomadas y editadas en canva desde su version gratuita.
Use el traductor DeepL.

My photos are taken and edited in canva from its free version.
Use the translator DeepL.



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Thanks for sharing, @daimar07 !
Good luck with the contest.
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muchisimas gracias! igualmente 😀

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thank you very much! I am so happy!

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Our three Christmas ghosts do provide that valuable introspective and guidance with their only interest is to better our lives and for those around us.
"No one is useless in this world who lightens the burdens of another." ~ Charles Dickens.
Thanks for sharing @daimar07 🌸

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We always intend to improve. thanks for your comment.

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Where to start ? It was so beatyful written but also i became a bit sad. The sentence :

Everyone is euphoric for these Christmas months and it turns out that the truth is different when January arrives and all or most of those people who were with you in December are no longer with you in January when the reality is different.
I am half Scrooge because for the last couple of years these last months of the year have been really worthless to me... They are normal days like any other.
So here come my ghosts that at this time to leave their different messages to see if they warm my cold heart as the post of beehive ladies says.
Those people you can do without. The days around christmas can be special with the people you love and that you choose. The fact that you know this can help. Just leave those people behind on your journey in life and be happy.
The three ghosts you written about are very special and you touched my hart.
Thank you for joining
And see you in the winners list

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for the people I love, value and respect is that I have half of my heart with Christmas.... Thank you for highlighting the most beautiful part of the writing for you ...

Greetings!

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