This weekend my best friend hurt my feelings and I... [Week 119]

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On Friday my friend and I had planned our perfect weekend of art, drinks, enjoyment and much more, we had talked for a whole week about everything we had to bring, the costumes, food, drink everything, we had agreed to go to a very famous event that they are doing in various parts of Venezuela called "Your art your wine" this event is responsible for becoming a painter for a day while enjoying a delicious wine ...
Throughout the day on Saturday, the event is responsible for guiding you through the process that you must follow so that the artwork is equal to that of the artist of your choice.

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In this opportunity while delighting the palate of the guests with a glass of red wine and a beach landscape because it would be in Higuerote, Miranda State, land of beaches, drums, sun and Caribbean breeze. They put you to give color to a blank canvas that in the end would be a UNIQUE and tremendous piece using different colors and techniques that they explain to you at the beginning. Painting in this way is the new way to meet people, to get to know yourself, to get away from stress, anxiety and depression, to concentrate on a single activity away from technology and routine...

It really is the perfect excuse to share with your best friend, because this time we decided to exchange our canvases to have a nice memory of each other.

My friend called me very early on Saturday, the sun had not even risen; telling me to forgive him that he was not going to be able to go this weekend with me because his conquest called him for another plan and he did not know how to say no... That it could be an opportunity to flirt with her.

And I was very upset, I just told him: Good luck!

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I felt super sad, disappointed, embarked, I felt that he played with my feelings because he knew that I had been gathering for months for this event and this one was much more special because it was beach, the canvas would be of a beach. I knew how much I longed to have that canvas on the wall of my room even if it wasn't mine, because he paints beautifully and it would be an honor to have something painted by my best friend.

I was furious because how easy it is for men to cancel plans without thinking about all the preparation that goes into a good outing we had together....
We had a lot, a lot of time, I had arranged with my partner to keep the baby because he doesn't like to paint.

And he thought it was cool that I had someone to go with.
Everything was fine with me...

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But I...

Well I called your art you came and CONFIRMED my place, I warned that I would be a little late but I would arrive. That my art and painting partner would no longer be there.
So I ran and told my husband to wake up that we were going to a family beach day, that the only thing was that he would have to take care of our daughter 100% while I was at my event turned into an artist for a couple of hours....

My art was full of nostalgia because I missed my best friend next to my booth, but I also learned that plans don't change when you have fought and planned everything to achieve what you wanted so much.

My family also enjoyed the day at the beach, they had a beautiful canvas which was the view of a beautiful beach....

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Everything always changes, I knew what was the feelings when you both planned and ended up messed, lol. My friends have the same issues but somehow I understand for that was work calls. We all planned to meet and they all agreed, yet one person claimed he can't go with us, ended all the gang in the group feels weird and agreed to cancel, lol. Sometimes unexpected and unplanned hang out was the best haha. I missed my pals too.

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Oh no, it's horrible when we have plans with a good friend and they cancel out of the blue, it's frustrating. Luckily you made the most of the day with your family

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I know this feeling, when you really prepared for it but in the end it didnt happen 🤦, that is dissappointing. But yeah better to move on than having a deep grudge to your friend

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