Between 4 walls
Good feelings are gone. After the resignation, I have a couple of days enjoying my mental vacation where I no longer needed to suffer with the suppression and heavy workload.
I'm glad the big shot called me personally to talk about my resignation. As much as I wish to, but I didn't talk about about the current boss on his management skill. In the end, we're all working FOR someone else. I know I know, Tony Robbins said working WITH. If that makes you feel better, please go ahead. I'm just going to say FOR, this way I can make myself detached and feeling less sentimental for this job I've been hodl for the past many years.
God I don't even want to count anymore. I had fun for a few days, started making calls to inform distance clients I will ceasr operation in a few weeks. I'm also handing over my clients especially those who has been with me since I started work here.
Emotionally, I really feel bad of leaving these clients behind. Technically, most if not all of them are now my close friends. There's little choice do I have now. If I stay back, the company policy is going to turn my client into my enemy. I will still lose them the painful way.
An ex colleague called to congratulate on my new job and are impressed by I will be able to get a buy over offer. Which means, the new company will compensate to me for paying back my old company for short notice resignation, I will have to pay back in lieu of my salary. In a nutshell, that's like getting a bonus from a company I never worked with.
Let's not forget, those are not free money. I don't get to use that money, at the same time it became my "income", which I will have to pay tax for. I may looked having a good time enjoying so much more benefit after the resignation, between 4 walls, I'm 6 months behind and gotta start worrying my next year tax bracket.
結婚之後我好似冇交過稅、免稅額提升左🤔
弊在今年未结婚🤣
咁要炸炸臨結一下🤩
I have so much to catch up on, but this certainly makes thing super duper official. Well, it's obviously bitter sweet, but I am almost certain you'll not have regretted this life choice looking back from the future. Besides, being a driver can lead to all kinds of things. When I had my own pedicab business I received many interesting job offers from mysterious rich folks that I transported, and looking back on it I should've taken one of the offers.
Ok. You missed a lot. I got offered by another company. They even go an extra step to buy me over. Now I'm in the middle of helping my new company to settle the payment to buy me from my current company. At the same time, my cab is on its way 😅 so, I have decided to still take the cab, for own use, and take the new job offer since it's 2 rank advance. I imagine it will be extremely hard to cope
Whenever I read resignation post from different people, all I can read is how happy they are resigning. So sometimes I think about working as an independent one, owning my business as a freelancer. I don't know if this sounds like promising or what..
I wish I have something to freelance for. I'm getting another job anyway. Thanks for stopping by.
I am also considering freelance job after graduationg, well good luck to our chosen paths in life. It's nice to stop and read your blog.
good hear you are happy
谢谢玛丽
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谢谢高僧大佬神龙赐福。
And I was what who is Tony Robbins?
Looked him up and negative stuff came out first of course but then looked up for more and there he was, a well known business strategist. 😄
Goodluck on your new job and I hope you will be more pleased than the previous one.
Thanks babe. The new one is very far 😅 now I need to find a way to cut down on my transportation expenses.
Dont think too much, you can always side both ways. Ends up you'll suffer more. I'm glad you did the right choice, try to have some rest, spent time with your family, you wont noticed it until it became serious mental health conditions. That time you'll need to spend more on it and so on. I did my resignation couples of years back in 2019( before covid) in Singapore. I recall my heart told me to resign as I'm not in a condition/mode for the company anymore. So good to hear that that you've resign bro. Do remember you are not alone 😊😊
I am not alone, that's why I have been working with the same company for the same position for almost 9 years 😅 even if I don't eat, my family need to eat since I'm the only one working for a salary.
Yeah, being a father is not easy. As you can understand it more than me. 9 years is really long tbh. But taking care yourself more is better for you and your family as well.
Front page headlines "Healing from abuse" really summarizes the state of the world and makes for a good introduction photo.
It's understandable you miss some people and feel what sounds like a little post depression. I think that's pretty normal to go through when you have good work ethic and like to do a good job with and for your associates and clients.
Tony Robbins, the philanthropist motivational speaker who's been in some movies.
He's a very likeable guy, and definitely has the gift to uplift the spirits of tired broken working class citizens. What better way for the establishment to program the idea of working WITH your corporate bosses 😂
Your sentimental feelings are human and normal, but your perception is more correct to say FOR, but not because of the sentimental aspects. The masters want us to have stockholm syndrome.
I think you're probably referring to the sentimental connection you had to other human beings who were also sentimental decent people :)
The food looks good 👍
You read my mind. Yes, I guess it's the people that I choose to remember.
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