Give People A Chance To Miss You, Or They Will Diss You.
Limit your availability with people, don't be too accessible to everyone. This is not kindness, you are just self-hating yourself.
When you make yourself too available, you become too familiar, thereby making those you give yourself to find it difficult to respect you. Will you value money if it is too available and common like a tissue paper? Ask yourself this question.
When you visit people too often, they will start seeing you as a jobless person. You want to join and comment in every group on social media, making yourself look too common everywhere you find yourself. And because they see you as jobless, they will refuse to take your calls or even reply your texts, because they feel you only want to beg them for something all the time.
Give people a chance and reason to miss you, or they might end up dissing you.
very well said my friend, we just need to make ourselves valuable, just keeping a good distance is very good I think.