A girl child

This life most times people will say is not balance, I will say life in it self is a mystery.
A girl child is born today, some family rejoice over her birth while some don't because they feel she is worth nothing, the mother keeping all hope alive, make sure she survive and have a good life by showing her love, care and affection. She grows up to become a very beautiful and sweet lady in the society everyone admires and adores her soon a man comes around to married her off, and the father will give out list full of demands ad if he took care of her and the man not minding will pay the price and marry her to his own family. The man's parents welcomes her to the house, the aunties, uncle's and siblings, do same and the girl feel so loved and cared for at first boom few months later everyone starts looking at her stomach to see whether she don carry belly (if she is pregnant) and if she doesn't problem start, people will start pointing fingers at her, saying all manners of things, some will even go to the extent of telling the man to marry another wife is the woman is still fruitless in 2 years and I am always pained to see this, most time the woman is the one suffering while the issue is from the man.

I once met a couple who after 8 years of married had no child and the woman is been tossed up and down by the man's family and the society as if she is the cause of the childlessness only to discovered few years after that the man is the cause of their childlessness and I will ask what did the family do? What did the society say?

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In some cases the girl is being married out as a virgin to the man while in some the girl was disvirgin and even had several abortions but immediately after married she is pregnant and the virgin can even boost of miscarriage, I do ask what causes such?

It is better to treat couples well especially those going through child challenges, you don't know what is wrong.
Women instead of pointing fingers at a follow woman because she is childless why not keep quite and pray for her silently, don't join others to hurt a follow woman.
Men try to understand, if it is not coming fast as you planned, it will definitely come at the right time, don't go out cheating.

If you are going through any stress now as a woman I want you to know that, you are strong and you will overcome it, just hold on and keep pushing and you will make it to your promise Land.

Love you all.

I am God's delight.