Weekend engagement 155: Excuse.
Hello friends, happy weekend I hope everyone is having a great time, today I come to share my participation in the theme of the weekend, the theme I chose was "Excuse", I hope you like my post, without further ado Nothing to add I will begin to develop the theme.
Sometimes we do not know when we are rude to other people, it is not a justification or an excuse, I just feel that many times we are rude to our acquaintances without meaning to, in my case I have done it without knowing and I have realized right after committing the mistake, sometimes one does not know how to communicate what one wants to say and that can be interpreted as something bad, personally I try to be friendly with everyone but, not all the time I know how to express what I try to communicate.
I believe that if it is important to forgive a person who is rude out of ignorance, since we do not always make comments to hurt or insult others, many times this happens due to the simple fact that as human beings we are not perfect and although at Sometimes we make mistakes, we need to be understood and forgiven, but yes, before forgiving you have to explain why that person did wrong, the only way to forgive is to see if this person reconsiders and apologizes, only in that case can they be forgiven. bad comments hurt people but not all the time the people who make such comments are aware of the harm they are doing.
Starting from the previously mentioned point of view, if that person continues to make bad comments or be rude to others despite having explained to them why they are doing wrong, they should not be forgiven and from my point of view they should stop talking, It must be taken into account that the word ignorant should not be treated as an insult, we are all ignorant in one way or another, it is up to us to change that and if we are not willing to change, we should not be forgiven.
And well friends, this was my contribution to the topic of the weekend, I hope you liked it, as always I really enjoyed writing the topic, thanks for stopping by, see you in the next post, until next time!
I agree with you, my friend. Many times we are not aware that what we said hurt someone. Then there are the different interpretations that people make of the same situation. The human being is complex 😂
I also think that if someone has been told that what they are doing is not right and you did what you did, that would be ignorance in the sense that they have decided to ignore the well being of others.
Yeah! we must have empathy and put ourselves in the place of other people, it is the way to detect if we are acting badly.
Yeah! If we need to change how people treat us, we need to change ourselves as well
Of course, my friend! Thanks for commenting, regards.
If someone becomes aware of what they are doing that is hurtful and that person does not change then that is good reason to end that relationship. It is never easier to put one elf in another person's shoes but it is worth asking that person to try to think from the other person's perspective. It works because it creates some self awareness.
I agree with you my friend, you have to have empathy in those cases, you have to think before acting