Story:A Quest for greener pastures
You left home in search of greener pastures. Leaving the whole people and things you knew for a future not promised.
A few months after my youth service with no job, I realized I've spent my entire savings with no money coming in, I had to advise myself to leave home to a place far from comfort. The only thing I benefited from sitting at home was the cozy bed and the electricity I enjoyed . Though a young man, I spend at least #3000 daily trying to feed a family, at first it was easy to do until my purse started to get empty and everyone still depended on me.
My younger brother who is already working woke up and told me something I held on to. There were 6 of us in the family, myself, my younger brother, two female cousins, grandma, and a child. He said he had noticed I spent more than necessary hoping to make everyone comfortable. He's been in this position and he knows how it felt. He advises me to find something to do and try to save while I give only that which wouldn't stretch my purse to the family. Taking his advice, I believed leaving home, a place of comfort would do me more good.
I'm relocating to a place I attended my college next week. I know it'll be difficult to start out there because I have no one to pay my bills, and I have no savings. Infact, I know there are days I'll go with no food, but I trust this pain would push me to work. The pain that comes with going away from home includes being abused probably by a friend one is squatting with, but the push to do something is enough path to success. Zaria is a place I schooled, I have people I know there who can assist me one way or the other even though I'm not putting my trust in them.
I've planned to start with a little money, enough to sustain me for at least two weeks. Within these weeks, I'll go around in search of jobs and I'll start with any job as long as the salary is good and isn't above my expenses. I'll work and hive at the same time, ensuring I save a little amount monthly. I should be able to rent a place after two months, then buy things I'll be needing gradually. It's not an easy decision to take, but I've guarded myself for whatever outcome that surfaces. If I need to achieve my purpose as a man, I ought to leave comfort and places that drain me and start life where I'll be more disciplined.
I pray lines fall in pleasant places for you, being successful comes with a lot of hardship at first, struggles, and discomfort trust me, it will pay off soon.
Just be consistent here on Hive and keep job hunting too, hopefully, things will be better my friend.
Amen. I've decided to take the bull by the horns and see how fruitful it turns out to be
Every thing will work for good by God's grace.
Amen.
Thanks for this prayer
To be a man is not a day job, there is nothing that drains like responsibilities.. I love your positive mindedness. The begining will not be easy for you but if you endure you will thrive.
Thank you so much. I believe everything would go smoothly but later on
Yes broh.. so let's keep the lights on...
You know what just keep goinging, never stop, never give up
Thanks for the encouragement,. I'll remember this
Being a bread winner is not an easy task especially when you have about 6persons looking up to you financially, hopefully you will get a good job, now that you have decided to take a step of success.
I wish you the very best.
Thank You so much. The prayer of success is everything
You are welcome
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I feel your heart desires bro, I took te decision too 3 years ago and I haven't looked back, even Hive alone can feed and take care of you if you stick with it through and through.
Keep grinding bro
3 years! I bet you're already doing well, I know it wasn't easy for you at start but here you are today, probably doing well. I'll keep grinding bro.
At some point in our lives we realized leaving our comfort zone is the only way to make our dreams become reality.
That's true, comfort has a lot it hinders
The possibilities to your decisions are limitless... I wish you all the best on your quest for greener pastures
Thank You brother.
You did mention relocating to Zaria to me and I see that you are serious about it. You must be anxious but your dedication, consistency and effort will pull you through. Well done Champ!
Yeah, remember I told you. I was serious, let me stay away from home