Men are humans too, give them a break
One of the hardest things to be these days is a man. It is even scary being a man sometimes.
As a man, everyone expects you to be strong.
They expect you to repress emotions.
They say men expressing themselves makes them look weak.
People always talk about the downsides of women but expect the man to act manly and look or appear tough.
Sometimes men hide in the restroom, not because they want to fiddle with their phones but because they want to let their guards down and permit themselves to cry if possible.
And this happens because feelings are forbidden for men by all standards and this is causing problems in many unbelievable ways.
On International men's day, men couldn't bring themselves to even celebrated themselves.
The accolades poured on women on mother's day and international women's day cannot be placed side by side with that of men, yet men never complain, even though they may want to, they just don't want to be perceived as weak or desiring something irrelevant.
Popular opinion suggests men are in power are responsible for all the ills in the world.
This is not true, because men are just as hurt as women over the injustices in the world.
What happened to innocent until proven guilty? Why are men always assumed to be guilty in a rape case?
If a man does not do sports, he is looked at in a type of way that makes him uncomfortable, "you don't play ball?" Some people will ask rhetorically.
It was only recently in these parts that tailoring and making of women's dress started being accepted as a profession for men.
Sometimes men are made to apologize for being men, we have to apologise for men cheating, even when it wasn't us who cheated.
We have to apologise on behalf of thieving politicians even when it wasn't us who stole.
The idea that only women can suffer problems is wrong.
There’s hostility to men having problems.
Although women are understandably annoyed at some inequalities towards women, to put all men in the same box is wrong. This creates an environment where men will feel castigated if they suggest they have a problem.
May link with why so many men never speak out against their battles, against the likes of depression.
There is one thing common to people of every gender that society forgets.
That is humanity.
Like women, men have emotions and need support. Suicide is the biggest killer of young men around the world today, and there is a reason for that.
Toxic masculinity cultivates a negative environment for men and women.
How can a man be truly free in modern society when the notions regarding his gender are so predisposed towards hostile isolation of emotion?
Men pay for everything, everything.
Who gives men a lift?
Who offers to pay for a man's transport or flight ticket?
Men are supposed not to feel anything, they are supposed to hide under the rock of masculinity and act tough so as not to break.
In all of these, however, men don't complain still.
They walk the earth in silence, weak, lonelier and depressed, only the strong survive, but they are all supposed to be strong.
Man can have a break if they want, and you freedom to decide from themselves.
But the best thing is that when a man is married woman should understand them and give them support.
In this world both woman and man have alot of problem, but we need to solve it together.
Because bible said we have become one
I like your views. :-)
We are married together to become one
And all our problems should be solved together as well
Which we need to understand our self in other to support each other so that we can have a sweet home.
The numbers don't lie either, it is more dangerous to be a man than a woman. All the human history death counts can tally up that. Woman survive longer than man on average above the means of men.
Women having their midlife crisis o
at 50? Most men have that between 25-35.
No need for silly charts, just figure it out on your self. ask 100 men and 100 women in your own backyard and figure it out from there. Add it together with other participates. You'll get similar results. Men live less than women hands down. Men receive more abuse than women. and there is more women in this world than men FYI.
But I don't want to build a wall between us sexes because were on the SAME boat.
We are both being forced genetic foods and medicines and tricked into that lifestyle at an early age (thanks tv propaganda machine). Men are being made more feminine while women are getting bigger looking more like men.
The control over the masses using sex magic control is the key. This is where self control comes in. If they have your sex magic under a string you will be manipulated by the hidden hand that wants you enslaved. Break free by abstaining from the physical orgasm and gain back control through positive white tantra practices (sex transmutation). Ie, do other things other than feed that perverted wolf inside us all.
The whole gender thing is a joke too. We are built to be either male or female. The genetic code of your being isn't lying to us. Those that "feel" they are something else other than what their own body is telling them are delusional. they are confused and this is a symptom of how messed up the CULTure is around us.
We find each sex wanting to be the opposite and expect society to just be ok with it. meanwhile the awaken philosophers that fix real problems of society but rarely ever get credit for it, can see this stems from a more serious issue.
We are being brainwashed from generation to generation to accept these things as a normality. People should be happy with what they are born with.
The above is only example of what I am trying to say about men and women being man and women.
It's ok to feel. it's ok to express. do no harm to others by not letting yourself be harmed. Turn off the television and men stop eating that chicken it's making your breasts look bigger.
This is a very good one and I want to say this at a point ,makes me see what men are actually suffering from and the level of adapting to every situation irrespective of low level of recognition that they do get for it.
It is very certain that many expect them to always stand up and be brave in which I don't say no to,cause it is a way of proving how strong and capable they are,but on the other side that have blood running in their vein and alot of challenges that do comes their way,that they face without even speaking out.
Hope we can one day be celebrating the men like woman are celebrated this day's