When change is forced?

In life, we are often stiffened up whenever we hear that we need to let go of the old and embrace the new.
The thought of having to change into something else is just not what many are used to hearing, taking advantage living with and that makes it difficult a job for nature to evolve.

Out with the regular new and in with the just new.

Just about anything is possible if we decide to make it so but, human nature is docile and would rather be forced to change than just change on its own.

Looking around the space, you will notice the inconvenient truths that are mostly first wrapped up in lies and than made to look beautiful in the picture of what we never expect it to be.

Forced change?

Is this a necessity that for man to evolve he must first be forced to accept change?
Can't we just make up our minds to change things for ourselves and legit impact those behind us?
Will this dawn be a much needed one that will herald the coming in of a new beginning worth waiting for?

Is change supposed to be forced?
Is change supposed to be allowed to just happen?
Can change just happen when the individual is not ready or do we need a push first?