La historia de Julián - Después de la Viudez | Parte II (ESP-ENG)

La historia de Julián - Un hombre decidido a luchar | Parte I / Julian's Story - A Man Determined to Fight - Part I

...Allí estaba Julian, ahora un hombre viudo, acompañado de sus pequeños hijos, la tristeza y la soledad ante la perdida de su esposa.

Al ser un hombre joven aún, con un poco más de 35 años, la sociedad, amigos y sobretodo familiares ni bien le dejaron vivir el luto de su esposa cuando ya le andaban buscando una nueva. Creyendo conocer más que él sus necesidades.

Las mujeres del pueblo, incluyendo sus solteronas cuñadas, sorteaban suerte a ver cual sería su nueva esposa e incluso habían discusiones al respecto, siendo para él una completa falta de respeto, pues mientras su esposa estuvo con vida y enferma muy pocos se preocuparon tanto por ella, como se preocupan ahora por conseguirle una nueva compañera.

...There was Julian, now a widower, accompanied by his small children, sadness and loneliness at the loss of his wife.

Being a young man, still a little over 35 years old, society, friends and especially family did not even let him live the mourning of his wife when they were already looking for a new one. Believing they knew his needs better than he did.

The women of the town, including his spinster sisters-in-law, were casting lots to see which would be his new wife and there were even discussions about it, being for him a complete lack of respect, because while his wife was alive and sick very few cared as much about her, as they care now to get him a new companion.

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Pasó algún tiempo, algunos de sus hijos fueron cuidados por abuelos, tíos e incluso personas extrañas, mientras él trabajaba por y para ellos, ya que él era quien debía seguir proveyendo para su hogar y no podía dedicarse a cuidar a los niños y dejar su empleo.

Mientras toda una turbulencia y el pasar del tiempo hacía eco en la vida de Julian, había una joven quien en varias ocasiones junto a quien en ese tiempo era su novio, visitaban a la esposa de Julian y era a la única mujer que Cristina (la esposa de Julián) aceptaba en su casa.

Esta joven mujer ya se encontraba soltera y Julian la vio pasar, llamando su atención. Buscó interactuar con ella, ya que eran del mismo círculo de amigos y poco a poco fue encontrando nuevamente el amor.

La Joven tendría un gran compromiso, no era solo un hombre, era él y todos sus hijos, hijos que acaban de perder a su madre y que su mayoría eran solo niños pequeños y algo rebeldes. Sin embargo y bajo los consejos de su Madre, asumió el reto y comenzó una aventura la cual ella no imaginaba.

Some time passed, some of his children were cared for by grandparents, aunts, uncles and even strangers, while he worked for them, since he was the one who had to continue providing for his home and could not devote himself to caring for the children and leave his job.

While all the turbulence and the passing of time was echoing in Julian's life, there was a young woman who on several occasions together with her then boyfriend, visited Julian's wife and was the only woman that Cristina (Julian's wife) accepted in her home.

This young woman was already single and Julian saw her passing by, catching her attention. He sought to interact with her, as they were from the same circle of friends and little by little he found love again.

The Young Woman would have a big commitment, it was not just a man, it was him and all his children, children who had just lost their mother and who were mostly just small and somewhat rebellious children. However, under the advice of her mother, she took up the challenge and began an adventure she had never imagined.

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Julian y Mariam se casaron, muchos estaban feliciles por ellos y decían "Al fin Julian tendrá quien le ayude", pero por otra parte estaban los que solo critican, los que juzgan y no aportan nada bueno. Criticaban el hecho de que él fuera mayor que ella y ella tuviera que criar tantos hijos que no eran suyos.

El matrimonio se llevó a acabo, Mariam era una joven ilusionada, pero un tanto confundida. Julian la trató como la niña de sus ojos y siempre la cuidaba, quizás por los traumas de su pérdida pasada. Al cabo de cierto tiempo Mariam salió embarazada y un nuevo hijo nacería para Julian, afirmando los lazos de amor entre ellos dos.

Cada día que pasaba Mariam recibía muchas críticas, muchos la juzgaban por salir embarazada tan pronto, otros decían que trataría mal a sus hijastros y tuvo que aguantar malos comentarios e incluso insultos. A los hijos de Julian, le llenaron la cabeza de ideas en contra de Mariam y todo esto hacía difícil llevar un matrimonio y embarazo sano.

Julian and Mariam got married, many were happy for them and said "At last Julian will have someone to help him", but on the other hand there were those who only criticized, those who judged and did not contribute anything good. They criticized the fact that he was older than her and she had to raise so many children that were not hers.

The marriage took place, Mariam was an excited, but somewhat confused young woman. Julian treated her like the apple of his eye and always cared for her, perhaps because of the traumas of her past loss. After some time Mariam became pregnant and a new son would be born to Julian, affirming the bonds of love between the two of them.

With each passing day Mariam received a lot of criticism, many judged her for getting pregnant so soon, others said she would treat her stepchildren badly and she had to put up with bad comments and even insults. Julian's children were filled with ideas against Mariam and all this made it difficult to have a healthy marriage and pregnancy.

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Nadie veía que era solo una joven enamorada de un hombre que ahora era su esposo, pero llevaba consigo hijos, hijos que ella cuidó sin saber ser mamá y sin querer reemplazar la de ellos, hijos que la gritaron "tú no eres mi madre", que muchas veces no le hicieron caso y otras veces fueron mejores, hijos de su esposo que incluso algunos de ellos tenían celos del nuevo hermano que venía en camino.

Julián con el pasar de los años, cansado de tantas cosas contra su esposa, de tantos juicios decidió viajar con su familia al extranjero, pero algunos de sus hijos ya habían crecido, uno de ellos ya era mayor de edad, así que algunos decidieron quedarse con parientes y no ir a otro país con su padre.

Tomadas las decisiones, decisiones que en ocasiones son difíciles, Julián comenzó una nueva etapa junto a su esposa Mariam e hijos, con los que decidieron acompañerle y con los hijos que tuvo con Mariam. No era nada fácil comenzar de cero, adaptarse a otras costumbres y cultura, pero ellos estaban decididos a ser felices.

Los hijos de Julian que se quedaron en donde antes vivían, hicieron su vida, se convirtieron en personas de bien, pues apesar de la cizaña que a veces metían en sus cabezas, los buenos consejos de su padre estaban siempre presente y le respetaban.

Con el tiempo, los hijos de Julian se conviertieron en Padres y fue allí que comprendieron a su Padre y a Mariam y valoraron más todo lo que ellos hicieron, así son las cosas de la vida, hay que estar en el lugar de otros para poder entender muchas cosas.

Nobody saw that she was just a young woman in love with a man who was now her husband, but she had children with her, children that she took care of without knowing how to be a mother and without wanting to replace theirs, children who shouted "you are not my mother", who many times did not pay attention to her and other times were better, children of her husband who even some of them were jealous of the new brother who was on the way.

Julian with the passing of the years, tired of so many things against his wife, of so many trials decided to travel with his family abroad, but some of his children had already grown up, one of them was already of age, so some of them decided to stay with relatives and not go to another country with his father.

Once the decisions were made, decisions that sometimes are difficult, Julian began a new stage with his wife Mariam and children, with those who decided to accompany him and with the children he had with Mariam. It was not easy to start from scratch, to adapt to other customs and culture, but they were determined to be happy.

Julian's children who stayed where they lived before, made their lives, became good people, because despite the tares that sometimes got into their heads, their father's good advice was always present and they respected him.

With time, Julian's children became parents and it was there that they understood their father and Mariam and valued more everything they did, that's how things are in life, you have to be in the place of others to be able to understand many things.

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Un nuevo futuro comenzó para todos, nuevamente el camino no sería fácil, habrían pruebas pero las enfrentarían juntos, habían cosas por lograr, metas por cumplir y sueños por ver hechos realidad pero todo eso sucedería juntos, uno al lado del otro.

Julián fue envejeciendo, los años no pasan en vano, vio a sus hijos más pequeños crecer y con ellos enmendar errores pasados y cometidos con sus otros hijos, buscó ser diferente que su padre y mejor que como fueron con él, Julian decidió marcar la diferencia.

Julian ha vívido muchas cosas, muchas aventuras, que un libro incluso no terminaría de contar, sus anécdotas han recorrido y traspasado fronteras. Mariam, siempre junto a él dándole ánimos y aunque muchos criticaron su amor, por la diferencia de edades, por el pasado de Julian, por el futuro que tenían planiado, ellos han seguido adelante sin detenerse ante la adversidad.

A new future began for everyone, again the road would not be easy, there would be trials but they would face them together, there were things to achieve, goals to accomplish and dreams to see come true but all that would happen together, side by side.

Julian was getting older, the years do not pass in vain, he saw his younger children grow up and with them he made amends for past mistakes and mistakes made with his other children, he sought to be different than his father and better than how they were with him, Julian decided to make a difference.

Julian has lived many things, many adventures, that a book would not even finish telling, his anecdotes have traveled and crossed borders. Mariam, always by his side encouraging him and although many criticized their love, because of the age difference, because of Julian's past, because of the future they had planned, they have moved forward without stopping in the face of adversity.

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Él sigue teniéndo a su lado a su compañera de vida, Mariam, quien no la ha tenido fácil, quien ha cometido errores, quien ha sido duramente criticada sin conocer su historia, por que así como la de Julian, ella tiene la suya propia. Sin embargo no se arrepiente de haber asumido el reto de esta gran aventura. Julian hizo realidad el sueño de no perder a su esposa una vez más y es por ello que siempre mima y cuida de Mariam.

He continues to have by his side his life partner, Mariam, who has not had it easy, who has made mistakes, who has been harshly criticized without knowing her story, because just like Julian's, she has her own. However, she does not regret having taken on the challenge of this great adventure. Julian made his dream of not losing his wife come true once again and that is why he always pampers and takes care of Mariam.