LOH #179 | My mother is the best example of success🩷

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Talking about my mother and our relationship is something that fills me with pride, because she is the best role model I have in life, she is a woman who despite her emotional and economic shortcomings and the different traumas she went through as a child, decided to move forward and give me the best education and all the love that she could not have so that I would not go through the same thing.

When we are little we never understand why our parents are so overprotective and when we reach a certain maturity we understand life better and I thank God to have her with me and to understand her completely, to help her and make her feel safe and to give her back all the love she didn't have and mine, because I am part of her and she is part of me.

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Share with us any memorable mother-daughter relationships, whether good or bad, yours or someone else's that you have witnessed

I, lost my father at the age of 9 years old, I still feel that at 25 years old it is a trauma that I will never overcome, not because I like to suffer but because I feel that deep inside me, to overcome the loss is to lose him completely and I refuse. That event led to change many things in me, from my attitude towards life to living with my mother, today I regret so many things I said when I was upset, because what a mother can really feel for her child is love and mine tops that list, because my mother has been and always will be the pillar that supports me in life.

She has been there for all the important and not so important moments in my life, from my school reunions to my spinal surgery and other illnesses that have made her stay with me without leaving my side for a second.

I think one of the moments that stayed with me was the day of my spinal surgery, I was 12 years old and I still remember her frightened face holding the stretcher tightly before I was admitted to the operating theatre and having to stay away from me for more than 10 hours of surgery.

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Tell us something you learned from your mother, your sister or a neighbour that she didn't teach you directly.

The best learning I have learned from a woman has been from my mother, she comes from a peasant family where my grandmother had no education whatsoever, totally illiterate, she was only raised to do household chores for others, and likewise from other generations. My mother comes from a family of 11 siblings, being the youngest, my grandmother decided to leave her to one of her sisters in the village so that she could study and have a life different from hers, she was left to her fate when she was only 6 years old, under the care of an aunt who only mistreated her because she was of "low level", My mother got ahead and is the only one of 11 siblings who broke the pattern and graduated from university and is a professional, my mother is a teacher in Integral Education, she is currently doing a postgraduate degree and continues to work in everything she can.
She is the most cheerful, intelligent and astute woman I have ever met, besides being the best mother in the world, loving to excess, attentive, helpful, all the good qualities that can exist physically, emotionally and morally lie in my mother. What better learning than that.

Everything you want to do or achieve in this world can be obtained with effort, perseverance and perseverance.

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This photograph is the only one I have with both parents.

At that time we did not have mobile phones with cameras or money to buy them, however, this picture with my mum gives me an incomparable air of love, and I got this picture of my dad to make a collage of both of them, which reminds me that they are always with me physically (mother) and spiritually (father) guiding me to success, as I am the best of both, and I know I am because they gave me the best education and love that a human being can need in his life.



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Your mum is so strong and determined. The ability to take bold steps and decisions, like going to Sch is very rare. And she took care of you without a dad, she is so empowering. I'm sure you learned a lot from her, I'm sure of that cause I know she will be full of wisdom.

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That's right, thanks to my mother I am what I am and I love each of her facets, because I know that she is a woman who was born to succeed and achieve success, her story proves it, that no matter where we come from or what our roots are, what we really are or what defines us is what we decide to do with our lives when we are conscious of it.

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Exactly, what we do with our lives is very important ✨👍🏾

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Your mother's grace and compassion leave an indelible mark on all of us. Your mother is truly remarkable. ♥️ for her

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Sorry about your dad, glad you still have such a loving mother with you. You both are beautiful.
!LADY

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Thanks, I thank life for still having my mother with me.🩷

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Your story reminded me on how I miss my late father, I see him in my dreams from time to time and still young appearing as if he had never aged. ❤️

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Thank you friend, I have a very strong and brave mother, the years have passed and I will still miss my father, he was the best, and his memories live on as long as I live.
People only die when they are forgotten!

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