The Journey To Making A Life Time Decision: Wedding//Marriage

DEAR LADIES

I know you can't wait to cry and dance on your wedding day or have a wedding that would be the talk of the town.

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You have mentally designed the wedding dress in your head, chosen the colors of the day; yellow, pink, mint green, white and gold seems like the perfect colors for the day.

The hall you guys would use have been pictured in your head and who among your friends would be the made of honor as well as the bridal train. But do you know?

Do you know that the reality of life is way beyond the colourful wedding day, butterflies running in your stomach and the unforgettable wedding night 🌃.

There's more to life than bearing Mrs, the exquisite bridal train, cute photoshoots and people blushing on your behave.

I know we all desired the best, but the parts we choose to followed in this journey of life matters. We desired a purpose driven man who loves God, beard gang and well built. But again, the question is are you ready to take off on this journey?
Intellectual, mentally and otherwise when he comes.

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Marriage is not just a bed of roses hope we Know that. It is a school you'll never graduate from, although some end theirs with a divorce letter while death cut some short but I surely know it is not what they signed for the day they walked down the aisle and took the Marital vow of till death do us apart.

For a successful and a beautiful life you must be ready to deprive yourself of so many things and follow him just as Christ admonished us to submit under him the head of the home. You must contribute and support his dreams but how do you intend to do so when you are not currently building capacity now. For the journey ahead is far and he that must win a race should be ready to undergo all kind of practice required both in harsh and suitable condition.

That's the reason when you become a mother you deprive yourself of sleep to prepare the kids early for school, you deprive yourself of some dates with friends so as to take care of the kids, give listening ears to the children despite your busy schedule in the office and would love to take a break when you get home.

How do you plan on handling all the weight and burdens that comes with purpose fulfilment as a help mate?

Marriage is not meant for the sex, food and bearing offspring alone. The sexual urges will gradually fade away, lost of appetite for food and one day you stop bearing children when all this begins to happen, what comes next?
Know You are ment for more.

Though we have so many weakness but work on yourself so when your man sees you he'll bless God the day he met with you.

Do not be a liability to him, but as an asset, a woman and more. please do ensure you bring something to the table at the end of the day, be intentional about personal growth, always involve God in the journey and watch how your marriage becomes bright and brighter like the perfect day light.