If we are going to argue with someone, let it be to solve something

Nobody could deny that they have not had a heated discussion at some point in their life, discussions can be passionate or heated trying to go in search of a reason, many will implement the necessary arguments to stay with her, the interesting thing is to be clear that if we are going to discuss that is to achieve the search for a solution to a problem.

If we are not clear about the objective of a discussion we better not waste time on it, discussions can make us lose a friendship and the worst if we do not set a purpose everything will be on our way, I do not see fair to discuss if there is no compelling reason to value each of the words that we put between the parties concerned.

I have witnessed many discussions and they do not get to anything concrete but rather make things worse or at least your relationship with the person being discussed, maybe we all have a lot of things to cut in this regard, but I do not waste time in any discussion if it is not to reach a solution to something that affects us.

Simple and clear we have to be when we engage in any discussion in this way we will not waste our time and most vital we will not put at risk the friendship we may have with another person, in this way I have been able to go through life, I only connect with a healthy discussion and that can lead us to a real solution of importance otherwise I prefer to remain speechless or switch to another topic of greater importance.