Can we feel motherhood before we actually become mothers?

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There is no other beautiful feeling like a mother in the world and it is a feeling that cannot be described in words. Well, you guys might be thinking that as I am talking about all these things, I might be married and have a child, but that is not the case, I am still single and a student. But I have realized motherhood at this age.


About a year and a half ago, my elder sister had a son and her son was born by operation. Her delivery was difficult and there were so many complications that I had to stay with her in the hospital. The feelings I had at that time when I held her child in my arms, I cannot express them in words. I just felt like I had my own son. First of all I fed him in the feeder. I changed his pepmer and the funniest thing is that I also gave him a name of my choice.



For about three days my sister was not conscious but I took care of her son like a mother takes care of her child and since then my attachment to him is just like my own child. For forty days after I went home from the hospital, I stayed at her house and took care of her baby. I knew everything about when the baby was hungry. If the baby is crying, what should he need? At what point did changing his diaper make me feel like a complete mother.


Now he is one and a half years old and he is still the same with me. He loves me more than his mother and I always worry about him too. If he ever gets sick, my heart aches for him. I don't trust anyone in his case though her own mother is very sensible but I share every decision with her and they all value and accept my decision.


My behavior has changed a lot since my nephew was born. I used to be very childish but now I have become very wise just like a wise mother. I also started taking very serious decisions in my life and all my family members said that now I will not have any problem in taking care of my own children because I have got a lot of practice and this is true.


Looking at my nephew gives me peace of life. If I come home tired from the whole day and play with him for just ten minutes, all my tiredness disappears. Now I have the feeling of being a mother and what a beautiful feeling it is, maybe few people at my age feel it, but I am living my life with this feeling and I am very happy.



Kind regards;
@eshacheema786


Thank you for reading my post.

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